Do you ever feel like your emotions rise and fall with your teen’s? If they’re stressed, you’re stressed. If they’re in a bad mood, suddenly you are too. It can feel like parenting teens or navigating the empty nest is one long emotional rollercoaster — and you’re just hanging on for the ride.

In this episode of the Almost Empty Nest Podcast, I’m shining a light on a mindset trap I call emotional outsourcing. This is when moms hand over their peace, confidence, and connection to their kids’ moods, choices, or behavior. And the truth is, we’ve all done it. As our kids grow, letting go can feel almost impossible — but it’s also where we find freedom.

You’ll hear why this happens, how it shows up in everyday motherhood, and what it looks like to do things differently. I’ll talk about how emotional outsourcing impacts our ability to feel connected, to find purpose in this stage of life, to trust our decisions with confidence, and most of all — to feel at peace.

If you’ve been stuck waiting for your teen’s behavior to give you permission to feel okay, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of this mindset trap and what it takes to stop outsourcing your emotions — so you can reduce anxiety, set healthy boundaries, and start creating the confidence, purpose, and peace you want in this next chapter of motherhood.

Tune in, my friend, and let’s reframe what letting go really means.

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This empowering podcast offers life coaching for moms and parenting support for midlife mothers raising teens as they approach the empty nest, teaching them how to let go of control, stop overthinking, and shift their mindset, while also helping them set boundaries, improve communication, reduce anxiety, release mom guilt, and find purpose in the evolving journey of parenting teens and motherhood.