What happens when you’re no longer in charge—but you still feel called to lead? In Episode 12 of The Whetstone, Dark Helmet and The Plague unpack the quiet power of influence, the emotional weight of leadership transitions, and why real leadership in F3 has nothing to do with titles or patches.

With humor, honesty, and heart, they explore how proximity builds purpose and how presence matters more than position. This is a conversation about choosing significance over status, embracing responsibility without recognition, and discovering that the greatest impact often comes not through control—but through connection.

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⏰ Timestamps:

04:02 The Grief & Gift of Leadership Transition

10:29 Titles vs. Trust: What Really Makes a Leader

19:26 Influence Over Importance: The Core Question

24:27 Disruption, Mentorship, and Quiet Leadership

32:47 From Being in Charge to Being Known

41:08 Personal Growth and the Ongoing Journey

45:00 Brotherhood & The Power of 2AM Friends

47:45 Faith, Responsibility, and Identity

52:58 What It Means to Take Charge of Your Life

56:48 Legacy Beyond Titles: Why You Show Up Matters Most

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