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The truth is—most modern women aren’t just working one shift. They’re working five.

Between managing households, raising kids, and keeping marriages afloat, it’s no wonder women are exhausted. In this episode, I share what the shifts are and I break down the concept of The Fifth Shift—the invisible labor of maintaining the health and connection of a marriage—and why it’s time to stop carrying it alone.

You’ll learn:

What the five “shifts” of modern motherhood and marriage actually are

Why the fifth shift (managing your marriage) often falls on women

How outdated conditioning still shapes relational imbalance today

Why partnership isn’t about being 50/50—it’s about awareness, capacity, and collaboration

Practical examples of how to rebalance responsibilities at home and in your marriage

You’ll walk away feeling seen, validated, and empowered to start creating more balance—without guilt or resentment.

If you’re ready to identify what needs to shift in your relationship so you can feel supported again, grab the Marriage 360 Review. It’ll help you assess your relationship, spot the imbalance, and open the door to real change.

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