The Kink Consultant

Ep 38 - Making Kink Music That Matters: Deore on Community, Consent, and Crowdfunding Tantrums


Listen Later

My favorite kink singer-songwriter needs our help. Deore, the incredible artist behind the Brat EP, is back and this time, she’s gearing up to release a full-length concept album called Tantrums. But in true brat fashion, she’s doing it her way: no label, no safety net, and fully trusting her kinky, ride-or-die community to bring it to life.


In this episode of The Kink Consultant, we talk about what it means to quit your job, follow your creative calling, and make music that actually reflects the reality of kink. Deore opens up about writing Tantrums from scratch, navigating service sub dynamics while in creative mode, and the very bratty legal battle over a coffee ban that had all of Instagram in stitches. We also get into how kink shows up in her relationship, how her Dom evolved alongside her, and why the idea of “ready-made” Doms is a myth.


If you’e also craving for more kinky music or just want to support someone making wildly accurate, emotionally raw bangers about submission, dominance, and desire, this is the episode (and the crowdfund) to show up for. Head to Indiegogo and search Tantrums to support the album before time runs out.


Support The Album Here: 

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/tantrums-a-kinky-concept-album#/


Connect with Deore: 

https://www.instagram.com/deorebby/


Episode Highlights: 

01:44 The Journey of Creating the Brat Album

09:20 The Kink Council and Coffee Ban Saga

21:11 Challenges in Music Production

21:42 Overcoming Vulnerability and Trust Issues

24:18 Crowdfunding and Community Support

26:31 Kink and Relationship Dynamics

28:52 The Role of Media in Kink Exploration

34:39 Upcoming Album and Crowdfunding Details


Connect with Me: 

  • ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠

  • ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠


I’m Co-Authoring a Book! Get updated here: 

  • https://www.complicatedpleasures.ca


Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure.

https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1
Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!Book your consultation here.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Kink ConsultantBy Amanda, The Kink Consultant

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

17 ratings


More shows like The Kink Consultant

View all
Strictly Anonymous Confessions by Kathy Kay

Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1,472 Listeners

Shameless Sex by Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts

Shameless Sex

2,981 Listeners

The Curious Girl Diaries by thecuriousgirldiaries.com

The Curious Girl Diaries

611 Listeners

The Weekly Hot Spot by Cock Radio

The Weekly Hot Spot

87 Listeners

Come Curious by Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE

Come Curious

380 Listeners

The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast by Venus

The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast

429 Listeners

Accidental Swingers by Myrina and Tristan

Accidental Swingers

289 Listeners

Erotic Stories from Wylde in Bed by Devlin Wylde

Erotic Stories from Wylde in Bed

631 Listeners

The Horny Housewife by Jordyn Hakes | Pleasure Podcasts

The Horny Housewife

1,483 Listeners

Talk Sex with Annette by Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette

62 Listeners

Luvbites by Dr. Tara by Luvbites by Dr. Tara

Luvbites by Dr. Tara

138 Listeners

Girls Gone Deep by Elle and Vee

Girls Gone Deep

228 Listeners

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast by Dom Sub Living

The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

86 Listeners

Pineapple Pinup: Hotwife Swingers Life by Tasty Tress

Pineapple Pinup: Hotwife Swingers Life

121 Listeners

Cuck My Life Podcast by Cuck My Life Podcast

Cuck My Life Podcast

54 Listeners