“Wholeness” is so arbitrary.

 

What does it even mean… to achieve this state? To feel “whole” and complete and worthy of your baby?  

 

A great example is this… 

 

So many women try to be the “good girl” to get pregnant. To do/be/act perfect and then you’ll get pregnant. 

 

…Talk about arbitrary…perfection is impossible.

 

But even so — even tho we know it’s impossible — we still aim for it. Which is kinda fucked up.

 

But (and listen to this one please) the fucked up parts of us, they’re still lovable. And this is wholeness.