Most couples get stuck in a pattern of blaming each other for the issues they’re facing—whether it’s the partner withdrawing, being overly critical, or just not feeling understood. But the key to shifting these dynamics lies in understanding yourself first.

In this episode, we are doing an even DEEPER dive into the often overlooked ways couples keep themselves stuck.

Continuing our previous conversations, I go layers deeper into the anxious and avoidant attachment patterns and how they contribute to common struggles, including:

• How anxious individuals may unintentionally create negative cycles in their relationships by seeking validation and reassurance.
• Why avoidants may struggle with passive-aggressive behavior, emotional withdrawal, and staying stuck in fixed patterns of thinking.
• The shared challenge of avoiding emotional discomfort, whether by running from it or trying to fix it immediately.

Understanding yourself at this deeper level empowers you to break the cycle of frustration and move toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Tune in to learn how self-awareness can not only improve your connection with your partner but also help you choose the changes that will actually lead to lasting transformation.

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If you're ready to stop feeling stuck in cycles of conflict and distance—and start creating the marriage you truly want—I invite you to consider private coaching with me.

Together, we’ll work week by week to:

✅ Break the patterns that keep you disconnected

✅ Build emotional safety and true understanding

✅ Create communication that brings you closer, not further apart

✅ Rekindle the friendship, warmth, and peace you both long for

You don't have to guess your way through this.

You don't have to keep hoping things will "just get better."

With the right support, you can rebuild a marriage that feels good again.

Book your complimentary consultation call here: https://drchavonne.com/work-with-me/