Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 166: Solo show connecting the dots between how building relationship leads us to more effective parenting

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Solo show!

News:

  • No shows in December, Happy Holidays!
  • January
  • Parenting Teens Audio Summit, YAY!!
  • Launching the first of January – stay tuned to register
  • Summit is live January 21st – 25th
  • Validation, inspiration, nuggets to PRACTICE
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    This week’s content:

    • Positive parenting is easy when there isn’t a lot of challenge – more challenging when our kids are rubbing up against our triggers
    • Toolbox metaphor
    • Higher our emotion, more likely we use desperate tools (rewards and punishment)
    • The more tools we put in to toolbox, the more likely it is that the ineffective tools of rewards and punishment slide to the bottom
    • We can always do better
    • Relationship matters!!!!!!
    • When our relationships are disconnected, navigating behavior in a harsh way isn’t useful for anyone
    • Fear takes us towards harsh punishment
    • Mistakes are opportunities to learn
    • There are always consequences
    • Inviting out kids into relationship
    • Can feel uncomfortable
    • Taking accountability for how the relationship currently is and get vulnerable
    • Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean we stop being curious with our kids
    • Start paying attention to the body
    • Support ourselves by noticing what is happening inside
    • We get more access to our toolbox when we are grounded and neutral
    • At the end of the day what is most useful is your relationship
    • NOT permission for being a permissive parent – still hold boundaries
    • Stronger relationship the more likely your child will open up and talk to you
    • Creating an environment where our kids can thrive and be a soft landing when they get it wrong
    • Shame/blame does not promote accountability and personal responsibility

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      Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensBy Casey O'Roarty
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