Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 483: Douglas Haddad teaches us about creating encouragement for middle schoolers


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My friend Douglas Haddad is here this week to chat about all things middle school, with a focus on encouraging discouraged learners.  


Douglas has been teaching for over 24 years (at ONE school!), and I love his commitment to his students. Douglas shares what he’s seen changing during that period, like higher anxiety & social media misuse, and what’s stayed the same, like a child’s need to feel loved, heard, and understood.   


Douglas shares his wisdom on keeping middle schoolers encouraged & engaged: making sure they understand the systems in place around them, how we can help when our kid isn’t connecting with a teacher, collaborating on family agreements, and helping our tweens grow their tolerance for discomfort.  


Takeaways from the show

  • What’s different between middle school today & when you were a tween? 
  • “Loved, heard, and understood” 
  • What does discouragement look like in the classroom? 
  • Wait Until 8th Pledge 
  • Does your child know & understand the systems in place around them? 
  • How to help foster connection between your child & their teachers 
  • Family contracts, charters, agreements, & meetings 
  • Being available without an agenda or judgment 
  • Setting & celebrating small goals 
  • Scaffolding for our kiddos to grow their tolerance for discomfort

  • For more show notes, including transcripts, visit our website here.

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