Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

Eps 506: Navigating grief that can show up during the teen years with Sascha Demerjian


Listen Later

It’s a tough topic this week - parental grief. Sascha Demerjian is here from The Grief House and beautifully intertwines personal stories with information.  


We don’t only grieve for people that we’ve lost. Sascha explains that we also grieve for expectations, narratives, & ideas - sometimes beliefs we didn’t even realize we were holding. We talk about how meaningful it is to have somewhere safe for the messiness of grieving and how we can resist wanting to jump in and fix things when others are hurting. It comes back to trusting the process. Remember that when our adolescents “launch,” they aren’t done growing & learning - they keep growing all through adulthood, just like we do. Grief doesn’t end, but bringing it to light & sharing with a community makes a big difference.


Takeaways from the show

  • We get to witness our teens’ stories & narratives, not create them 
  • Letting go of some beliefs in favor of a better relationship
  • We grieve for ideas & expectations, not just people we lose 
  • Holding deep faith & trust that our adolescent’s lives are going to unfold just the way they are supposed to 
  • “Don’t make it worse” 
  • Working through your grief & worries with a therapist 
  • Enabling vs. empowering 
  • Grief doesn’t end 
  • Bringing things out to the light & the power of community

  • For more show notes, including transcripts, visit our website here.

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    Joyful Courage for Parenting TeensBy Casey O'Roarty

    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8
    • 4.8

    4.8

    246 ratings


    More shows like Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

    View all
    ADHD Experts Podcast by ADDitude

    ADHD Experts Podcast

    1,301 Listeners

    Edit Your Life | Simplify + Declutter Your Home, Time, and Mental Space by Christine Koh

    Edit Your Life | Simplify + Declutter Your Home, Time, and Mental Space

    512 Listeners

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children by Debbie Reber

    Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children

    961 Listeners

    Beautifully Complex by Penny Williams

    Beautifully Complex

    352 Listeners

    For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast by Jen Hatmaker

    For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast

    6,420 Listeners

    Neurodiversity Podcast by Emily Kircher-Morris

    Neurodiversity Podcast

    414 Listeners

    Raising Good Humans by Dear Media, Aliza Pressman

    Raising Good Humans

    1,856 Listeners

    Unlocking Us with Brené Brown by Vox Media Podcast Network

    Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

    23,603 Listeners

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry by Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson

    Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

    446 Listeners

    Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam by Dr. Cam

    Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam

    62 Listeners

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens by Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

    Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

    88 Listeners

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

    Good Inside with Dr. Becky

    4,454 Listeners

    We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

    We Can Do Hard Things

    41,402 Listeners

    This Is So Awkward by Peoples Media, This Is So Awkward

    This Is So Awkward

    315 Listeners

    Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen by Elise Loehnen

    Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen

    1,051 Listeners