Why do so many mothers struggle with new parenthood if the maternal instinct is supposed to "kick in" and tell us all exactly what to do? In her new book Mother Brain: How Neuroscience Is Rewriting the Story of Parenthood, Chelsea Conaboy cracks the myth of the maternal instinct wide open.

In this episode, Chelsea explains:

Here's where you can find Chelsea:

Website: motherbrainbook.com

Twitter: @cconaboy

IG: @chelsea.wonder

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