Gay Men Going Deeper

Gaydar


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How can you tell if someone is gay? It’s an age-old mystery that often turns into a discussion about “gaydar” – the ability to perceive or intuit someone's sexual orientation. In this episode, we are unraveling the intricacies of this phenomenon in how we navigate the subtle cues and signals that hint at our ‘gayness’. 

Some of the topics we’re covering today are:

  • The science behind gaydar
  • Criteria we use to detect someone’s sexual orientation 
  • Unconscious bias 
  • Code switching (adjusting your behavior to fit the social context)
  • Challenging assumptions and stereotypes about being gay
  • The ability to “turn on” or “turn off” your gayness 
  • Being closeted vs. being out 
  • Minority stress 
  • At the core of this discussion, we confront the issue of unconscious bias and its impact on our perceptions of others. How can we challenge these biases to foster a more inclusive and accepting society?

    Tune in to this intriguing episode as we uncover the mysteries of gaydar and explore human identity and connection.

    Today's Hosts:

    • Michael DiIorio
    • Matt Landsiedel
    • Reno Johnston
    • Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

      • “The Science of Gaydar”
      • Unconscious Bias
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