The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Girly law of power #23: Stop competing with other women


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Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.


One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot.


We'll discuss:

  • Why zero-sum thinking violates the very existence of the universe, which is rooted in abundance
  • Why women are conditioned to see other women as threats rather than allies
  • How rejecting artificial scarcity & having an abundance mindset are patriarchy hacks on an existential level
  • How to exit the plane of competition and enter the plane of creation


The opposite of competing isn't collaborating -- it's creating. As women, we already ARE creators. It's time to exit the rat race and get back in touch with the essence of our being.


✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.


Love, Neeki xo


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