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I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like. 

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PS remember to take your birth control!!

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The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves & try to conform
• An example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)
• Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play games" are excuses for lazy, short sighted people
• The psychological phenomenon behind being contradictory & how it can help you

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.

We discuss:

• How to put your foot down and say "no"

• Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocated

• How to plan a wedding in under a year

• Debunking wedding myths (did you know the history behind the groom not seeing the bride before the wedding?)

• Overconsumption and how Big Wedding gets us to spend WAY more than we need to

• An interesting perspective on the father of the bride walking the bride down the aisle

  
  

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Welcome to all the pretty bitches. Wack bitches stay on lookout.

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The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Why power is not given to the most deserving person
• The psychological phenomenon that makes it essential for you to act like a winner at all (most) times

• Examples of Hollywood actresses who used this law to make their careers super successful

• 3 patriarchy loopholes to understand & exploit

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode ,Talia & I discuss:

- The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)

- Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)

- How these apps take women out of their feminine energy/take men out of their masculine energy

- How women end up commodifying themselves and seeking validation, even when that's not the goal

- Alternatives to dating apps (hint: it doesn't involve you sitting in a hotel bar)

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A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play.

But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are we labelled a hundred things when we're quiet, but we're also expected to be people pleasers and fill the silence to make sure other people are comfortable. At our expense. Because silence is pretty uncomfortable. Well guess what, in this episode we're going to discuss:

- How to stop taking silence as rejection

- How to control the narrative using silence as a tool

- How to use weaponized silence to get more info out of people than you would've by talking (this is NOT the same as stonewalling)

- A comparison of the responses of two women who got cheated on in the public eye: Princess Dianna and Cardi B

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President & CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of Langton PR - a public relations & creative agency in Toronto, Canada.

Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he broke a cultural norm or two. Daniel shares his journey of self-discovery, navigating fear & imposter syndrome, and what happens when you work in female-dominated spaces.

Oh and we close the episode with a tarot card reading🔮

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Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:

- How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimated

- The behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at controlling the narrative

- Why you can only prove people wrong through your actions, never your words

- The art of proving people wrong indirectly

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder & CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about her story of mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is. 

This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, I’m sure you’ll resonate with her story and learn a thing or two about yourself 🩷 I definitely did. 

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🌐 Shop Cheekbone products on their website (use code NEEKI20 for 20% off), Sephora Canada, and JCPenny 

A bit about Jenn:

Jenn founded Cheekbone Beauty in 2015. The company’s journey began as an online business, a direct-to-consumer brand that took pride in its commitment to reducing environmental impact and supporting Indigenous communities. 

In 2019, Jenn appeared on Dragon's Den (the Canadian equivalent of Shark Tank). She turned down the Dragons’ offers and went on to steer Cheekbone towards exponential growth, including contracts with major retailers in North America. This placed Cheekbone on equal footing with global industry giants. Cheekbone products are now sold in Sephora Canada and 550 JCPenney locations across the USA.

Jenn is a voice for topics that are reshaping the business landscape: social entrepreneurship, empathy, representation, inclusivity, and sustainability. Jenn weaves her narrative as both a woman and a representative of North America's Indigenous peoples, and she embodies the importance of these values in today's business ecosystem.

In 2022, Jenn was listed among the 100 Women of Influence by Entrepreneur Magazine (a list graced by the likes of Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian). In 2023, Jenn was conferred an Honorary Doctorate degree from the Goodman School of Business at Brock University. This honorary degree recognized her dedication to community betterment and sustainability. In 2024, Jenn was also named as one of Canada’s Top 100 Most Powerful Women.

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