Baddies, you're now able to pre-order the Kindle/eBook edition of "How to Hack the Patriarchy" 🎉 Pre-order on Amazon here -- Jeff Bezos is ready to fulfill your orders! Paperback/hardcover will be available to order on November 25.

PRE-ORDER PROMO: Anyone who pre-orders a copy will get a FREE month of Patreon, where you can watch bonus episodes and receive early, ad-free releases of upcoming episodes. DM me on Instagram and I'll add you to the Patreon.

GIVEAWAY: I'm opening a giveaway from Mon Nov 24-Mon Dec 1 for the chance to win an Amazon gift card valued at USD 100. By purchasing a copy, you'll receive 10 entries (rather than the standard 1 entry).

BADDIES, WHAT A GREAT DAY TO HACK THE PATRIARCHY 🎉🩷

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🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

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I'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if you want people to step up in your life.

In this episode, we'll get into the mindsets that are making your life more difficult and causing you to self-sabotage. We'll also discuss the one behaviour shift that will make your life so much easier.

BTW make sure to stay up-to-date on my giveaway announcement and book launch by following my Instagram 📚 My book "How to Hack the Patriarchy" will be released November 25 on Amazon.

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🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

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Your tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a job, get married, become a mother, retire, die. Rinse & repeat in the next life.

Babes, true delusion is accepting a life someone else decided was “right” for you.

You know how many people told me I'm delusional, unrealistic, and crazy for wanting to quit my corporate job to start a podcast? Plenty. If I'd listened to them, you wouldn't be about to press play to listen to me.

Deviating from the status quo will get you backlash and side eye, but that doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. In fact, it's a sign you're on the right path. No one is more upset than a goof who sees a woman living life on her own terms.

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🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

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🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

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Spoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled — a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, and never settles for less.

Acting spoiled is a huge patriarchy hack we tend to overlook, because we're brainwashed to think it's bad to be spoiled. However, this buttcrack morality exists to cover one of the patriarchy's most useful loopholes for women.

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice.

In episode 5 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize.

From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These systems exist to distract us from that simple fact.

This finale connects every thread we've pulled in the last four episodes to show how real freedom begins when women realize their power and wake up from the trance of consumerism. We don't need to spend money or perform labour to prove our worth. We're already worthy.

If you’ve followed this series from the start, this is the closing argument: if patriarchy is the cell, women’s choice is the radiation that kills it.

Tags: women’s choice, patriarchy explained, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, empowerment, modern feminism, gender inequality

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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Freedom looks different when you have to buy it.

In episode 4 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover how capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment.

From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women “freedom” that still serves profit.

While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taught to spend money to prove theirs. Neoliberalism turned independence into consumer identity. Beauty, success, self-care, empowerment—everything became a product.

This episode breaks down how capitalism replaced control with desire—how “choice” became the slogan of a system that profits when women are taught to hate themselves and compete with each other.

Tags: capitalism, feminism, patriarchy explained, consumerism, feminist podcast, modern feminism, gender roles, women and power, feminist theory, women empowerment

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either.

In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends.

When second wave feminism enabled women to gain financial independence, men lost their monopoly on survival.

Stay until the end for the cliffhanger on how capitalism rebranded servitude as empowerment.

Keywords: patriarchy explained, masculinity, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, modern masculinity, feminist podcast, gender inequality, men and power

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour.

In the second episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how the nuclear family became an economic machine that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of private property to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineered to reproduce patriarchy generation after generation.

If you’ve ever questioned why “traditional family values” always seem to benefit men and corporations, this episode explains the architecture behind it.

Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on how women’s financial independence disrupted men’s role – by accident 😉

Keywords: nuclear family, patriarchy explained, capitalism, feminism, gender roles, unpaid labor, domestic work, women and work, feminist podcast, feminist theory, family and capitalism, women’s history

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built.

In the first episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how power, property, and control over women’s labor built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today.

This is the blueprint of male power, the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know.

If you’ve ever wondered where patriarchy came from or how it keeps itself alive, this episode is for you. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on what’s coming next 😉

Tags: patriarchy, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, history of patriarchy, women’s empowerment

About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected.

Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (& I don't mean acting like Regina George.)

In this episode, we discuss:

• What it means to be mean
• Why being mean is a form of self-protection & self-preservation
• The 2 main reasons why people will use guilt, shame, and punishment to force you into being nice
• An example of one of my fave historical baddies who was successfully mean

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:

1. Use the patriarchy's loopholes to your advantage
2. Unlearn the invisible conditioning keeping you small
3. Stop letting guilt and shame control you
4. No longer feel depleted in your relationships 
5. Apply psychological strategies to get what you want
6. Understand human nature so well, you'll always win

About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: [email protected]

🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon

💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays

💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off

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