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We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants.

In this episode we’ll discuss:

- Why looks hold power & how being the centre of attention puts you in a position of power

- Why visibility = value and enables you to command respect, making it easier to bring peoples’ defenses down so you can get what you want

- 3 tips that will help you dress in a way that puts you in control of the narrative

- The easiest way to stand out in any crowd 

I highly recommend you listen to law 9 (act like a queen to be treated like one) and law 3 (so much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage), as they have many parallels to this law!

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓

2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date?

2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated?

5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seeing since January asked for me to share my location. I did but he never shared it back, and when I asked him about it he said he wants to make sure I’m safe. Should I believe him? 

7:02 - Which Disney princess are you and why is it Shrek?

7:21 - Would you date someone who was religious or has different religious beliefs as you?

7:48 - What are your thoughts on having a roster?

14:55 - How would you tell someone you don’t want to date them because they live with their parents?

15:43 - If a man doesn’t listen and I end up being right, how would you respond to his behaviour?

18:19 - Is it ok to date two people and still feel single?

20:20 - Drop your haircare routine

21:36 - Have you ever picked up a guy for a date?

21:41 - Have you ever dated a mutual friend and didn’t tell that mutual friend?

22:51 - How do I ask situationships to pay for things?

Love, Neeki xo

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If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably....

As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business."

In this episode, we'll discuss:

- Why we're conditioned to give aimlessly

- The dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay with

- The actual currency we should be paying with

- 2 easy ways to become ensure all of our "businesses" are profitable (aka we're not depleting ourselves and giving too much)

- An example of how I spent 5.5 YEARS giving my time, energy, and money to a relationship that was basically a black hole

✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, Why Men Love Bitches. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me.

The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally.

In this episode, we get into:

- How women are conditioned to be doormats and men are conditioned to be bitches (+ obvi how to become a bitch)

- Our own stories of how we went from doormat to bitch in our past relationships

- How Cami manifested her man (the power of writing things down you guys!!!)

- Why the only important form of validation is self-validation

- Cami's patriarchy hacks

Love,

Neeki xo

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In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc.

I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕

In this episode, we'll discuss:

- Why you're sososo worthy of receiving

- Why it's important to stop hating men if we want to truly take advantage of the patriarchy

- How to change our mindset so we can get more comfortable with receiving

- Small actions we can do to start receiving things

- Why if we don't assume the receiver role, we'll attract someone who does (aka a feminine, sassy man)

✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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HELLO IT’S OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE💓

You know how I always tell you that mentally I’m in Barbieland and I’m kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You don’t have to take my word for it, that’s why I invited a scientist onto the show.

Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. She’s the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measure and find the hidden moments in your daily life that shape your emotional wellbeing. The app uses 20 years of neuroscience research and links to your wearable technology (e.g. your Apple Watch) to pick up the automatic signals your brain sends throughout the day and measure how your body responds to different experiences. Prior to filming this episode, I used the app and found out some fascinating stuff about my daily activities. 

In this episode we discuss:

- Whether it’s a myth that women are more emotional than men

- A surprising finding about feelings (hint: they’re not actually objective reactions to the world)

- The neuroscience behind being delulu, manifestation, and the law of attraction

- How we can rewire our brains and create more positive outcomes for ourselves

- How to build our emotional fitness (just like we build our physical fitness)

- How to identify daily experiences that give us fulfilment and take control of situations that make us feel not so fulfilled

- Laura’s two patriarchy hacks

This episode is especially relevant for anyone who feels like they’re in a rut or struggling to find their spark. 

Love, Neeki xo

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People don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion.

Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to smell a bouquet.

I mean, you could ask him to get you flowers...but the magical thing about nagging your partner is that it makes him do the exact opposite of what you want. And you also don't want to set the precedent of "if she wants something, she'll just ask." The same applies to friendships, work, roommates, and all other dynamics .

In this episode, we’ll discuss:

- The fundamental aspects of psychology and human nature behind why people need to feel a sense of autonomy behind their decisions

- How to make people lower their defences by priming your relationships (aka getting the soil ready to plant the seed) so that you make people feel safe in your presence, which will allow the power of suggestion to work almost effortlessly

- Examples of how to use the power of suggestion with someone you're dating, your significant other, your colleagues, your roommate, and yourself

- Psychological and hypnotic tricks on how to make your suggestions more compelling

✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

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Hello to all the pretty girls tuning in…so hello everyone. Y’all asked for more unscripted episodes, so that’s what I’m bringing to the table today. 

Here’s some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.

There was actually a tie in the last poll, “is marriage a scam” and “are pick mes a product of the patriarchy” both got 44% of the vote! We’re going with the marriage topic, since a lot of you have messaged me over the last few weeks asking me to talk about whether marriage is a scam for women. Which is surprising given I’m not married nor have I ever been!!!!

Anywhoooo I hope you enjoy hearing me yap about this. Let me know what you think - is marriage a scam? Or are there ways for women to negotiate a favourable outcome for themselves? I'll be responding to all comments and DMs 🩷

Love, Neeki xo

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As a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumas….everything that makes you, YOU.

Your truth is a garden that most people don’t deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a woman’s truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isn’t the default for most people.

In this episode, we’ll discuss:

- The different tiers of people who want to access your truth

- An example of a silly man from the 1500s who made it known he was using the truth for bad intentions, and how people came together to send him on a 2000-mile wild goose chase for 1.5 years

- A technique for testing someone’s reaction to your truth, without actually sharing your truth and making yourself vulnerable

- How and why withholding your truth is different from “lying”

✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!!

In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.

The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul sucked by working in a corporate job. After working with CEOs, execs, and boards, I've seen some STUFF. And I lived to tell the tale. I'll also discuss a way to save ourselves from the dementors.

I feel like this might (??) be less applicable to jobs in certain fields (e.g. healthcare, teaching, etc.). But the capitalism pandemic is everywhere, so I'm curious to hear from the non corporate baddies. Drop a comment and lmk! I'll be responding to all comments 🩷

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