Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

This episode is titled how to give her space without giving up because so many of us struggle to know how to deal with those three little words...those 3 words that make your neck hairs stand up and your gut tighten into nauseous knots - "I need space!"

I've talked a lot in other episodes about this issue. Those videos talk about what to think about her request for space and how to know whether it's really a request for divorce.

This episode is about the PRESSURE she feels and the distinction between the BAD pressure you must stop and the GOOD pressure you must start.

Even if you wind up divorced, you must understand the difference and become a master of applying GOOD pressure - everywhere in your life.

Let me explain this in really simple terms.

BAD Pressure = Desperate, sad, nervous and needy pursuit of affirmation.

When it comes to a woman declaring her need for space...you can't analyze it or change it. When she says "I'm not feeling romantic love for you anymore"...you can't argue about it or negotiate it. So, don't even try. That's BAD pressure.

Even though she may not know exactly what the hell she means by this, it's her emotional truth. She didn't make a choice to feel like this...she just DOES. Don't ask her why. She doesn't know why. She won't know why tomorrow or, possibly, ever. Asking her who/what/where/why/when/how questions in order to collect data and solve the problem for her is BAD pressure.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

This video talks about the value of male friendship and why we must learn to pursue friendships and learn to ask for help.

Why?

Because it will revolutionize how you feel about yourself, your life AND your relationship with your woman.

How do I know?

It happened to me - it continues to happen to me and I see it happen to men in our community every damn day.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

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You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

The video is about how "chasing" and "pursuing" what you want from women will never work. Getting affection, love and sex all starts with you knowing you're good enough without needing her to confirm that for you.

Here's my latest article that relates to this topic.
https://goodmenproject.com/marriage-2/shes-49-and-shes-done-with-romance-and-sex-stvhn/

My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

I wrote a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/work-with-steve/

I would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust me on that.

Sign up to receive my email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

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You can watch all my videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/video-library/

Or read my blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

In this video I describe the most common "attachment style" problems keeping you from having the relationship you really want. If you want to save your marriage or have more affection and intimacy in your relationship you must take the lead in becoming a secure, confident, self-respecting man. Everything changes from that point.

This link will take you to the Men's Live Coaching Roundtable information page:
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

This link will give you the information page for the How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb online course: https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1

You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

All you want is for her to return your affection. So you show her how much you care.

You help out more around the house, you buy her gifts, you pamper her with massages and make sure she has all the money she needs so she can get herself anything she wants.

But she's distant and unresponsive.

In this video I explain the KEY REASON why nice guys get no loving and why doing LESS instead of MORE is so important.

My new book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

I wrote a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/work-with-steve/

I would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust me on that.

Sign up to receive my email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

Subscribe to be notified whenever I upload a new video: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=SteveHorsmon

You can watch all my videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/video-library/

Or read my blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Are you living in a marriage and relationship where your Wife Is Always Unhappy? In this episode I talk about the mistake we make when trying to deal with this situation and the change in perspective that will make the difference for you going forward.

Learn how to react less to stress and tension and feel like a calm, confident man again.

See the Happily Divorced Man article I mentioned in this episode here:
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-acting-like-a-happily-divorced-man-can-save-your-relationship/

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when you get turned down.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make your self worth a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you. Our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable has an amazing tribe of men, supporting and helping each other through a process of growth and self confidence.
https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/ddb?ref=a53950/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/work-with-dan/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/work-with-dan/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: n

Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1

You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Here's the link to the April 2020 UK Retreat I mention in the video:
https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/

"Every decision you take can either increase your value or decrease it”

It's the start of another new year and rather than setting my self worth and self respect on someone else's opinion of me or on how they are attracted to me or like me or how much they're willing to pay me, my resolution is to continue to learn who I am and what I want to experience.

I know I'll be successful in this because I'm on a path and I have people who are helping me see which path is right for me.

There are goals and achievements along the way for sure, but each time I reach one of those it's with eager anticipation of the next challenge and a deepening experience of who I am and what I'm capable of.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

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You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Warning, this video may piss you off! But I don't care - you need to hear this.

In this video I discuss: What's really happening when someone treats you badly?

Are you a healthy adult man who wants to become more emotionally confident, mature and effective in your life by changing how you think and respond to your circumstances?

We coach men to help them become very clear about how they can create new circumstances for themselves. Yes sometimes that means leaving a relationship, that is always a possibility once you become clear in what you will experience in your next 20-30 years on this planet.

Sometimes it means learning how you can inspire your partner to grow and learn to love deeper with you too. And that's an amazing thing.

It takes a deeply strong and powerful man to grow in this way. Are you one of them?

Here are some opportunities to connect with the GG2GM community. We want YOU to be a part of it.

In partnership with Dan Dore we've created an online men's gathering in the GG2GM Live Men's Roundtable. Find out more here:
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

Dan and I are also hosting our first Live in the UK Event on Saturday, September 14, 2019. This is going to be a blast in London! (great pics on that link). All day deep work with 15 brothers (in a week this sold out but we just opened up two more spots) and then an all night Medieval Banquet complete with food, drink, singing and beautiful beer wenches. More info here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/mens-uk-all-day-live-coaching-event/

Tim Wade and I are doing one more Confident Man Ranch Retreat this year on October 20-23, 2019. This is in Loveland, Colorado and is a mind-blowing time on a beautiful mountain ranch, incredible horseback rides and transformational coaching. This is a guaranteed game changer for men in struggling relationships.
https://mojopolis.com/ranch/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=SteveHorsmon

You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Today's message is simple.

Confidence.

Pure, unedited, open-hearted, easy going and unapologetic manly confidence!

It’s what separates those who “happen to the world” and those who “wonder what happened”.

It’s what separates engaged, happy men who live out loud and those who feel stuck in silence and darkness.

It’s what you need to take the next big leap in your life and relationship.

What would you do if you felt fearless?

What would you decide if you didn’t care what anyone thought about it?

What if you were SURROUNDED by men like this in your life?

What then?

Join Steve and Dan in the UK this April: https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/goodguys2greatmen-uk-mens-retreat-2020/

Our Masculine Confidence coaching programs are designed to teach you how to become a man who knows and trusts himself to create the life and relationship he wants.

How do you know you're going to live a life filled with happiness, connection, passion and meaning?

Contact us for a free coaching call and we'll tell you how: https://goodguys2greatmen.co.uk/apply-now/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Your wife wants a divorce and you only just found out? Did it send you into a painful spin of emotional turmoil and uncertainty? Just hearing that one word "divorce" come from your wife can be so explosive, it's like a bomb went off right beside you.

In this episode I talk about the way that most of us guys react to this situation...arguing, blaming, shaming, trying to logic her back into feeling in love with us again and the more we try, the further away she pulls from us.

Here is the link to the "How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb" course information page.
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

Here is the link to the Newsletter I mention in the video. (If you want to subscribe to the weekly newsletter you can that in this newsletter)
https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain/KooEB

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.

We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.

It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

Most men don't.

They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.

They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.

But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.

You can only improve your inside game with other men.

We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.

Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/

If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb:
https://howtodefusethedivorcebomb.com/

What if this next year everything changed for you?

That's what we want for you brother,

We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/

We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/

If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/

We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.

Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: http://archive.aweber.com/stevemain

Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1

You can watch all our videos here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/

Or read our blog articles here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/blog/

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun