Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

We men can deal with all sorts of crises, whether it's a house potentially burning down (as mine could do right now) or an injury, a car accident, or a total disaster at work - we can deal with it and still get what needs to be done, done.

But when it comes to our exclusive, intimate, romantic relationship and the possibility of it ending...we suddenly have no idea what to do or how to respond.

In this episode I talk about how this can be the BEST time for you to finally find your inner strength - that you utilise all the time in those other situations - and bring it out in your relationship.

That's what the guys we coach do and they find it to be an incredibly liberating and empowering journey (their wives are often astonished at the difference too).

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

How to handle her changes in mood in a way that shows her you will always be there for her, always reliable, dependable, loving and leading her to a happier more loving and affectionate relationship.

You lead and she'll follow.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Has your marriage become boring?

Has the sparkle left the interactions you have with your wife?

In this video I explain how you can bring back the fun, flirting, dirty jokes, dancing, footsie under the table, touching and sex.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown???

How do you tell is she's just tired or if she's quietly plotting her departure from the relationship?

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Does your wife or partner tell you that you're controlling? Do you understand what that means for her and why she feels that way?

In this episode I discuss how to tell if you're being controlling and what to do to lead the relationship instead.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

This episode is an excerpt from one of the Roundtable group coaching sessions we ran last year and covers one of the most common questions we get asked and one of the biggest sources of frustration for men in their marriage or long term relationship.

Why doesn't she initiate intimacy?
Why do I have to do everything to make this a relationship rather than just a platonic friendship?
How can she be happy without an intimate connection?
What can I do to change this?

Our first response is always to look into how you THINK about your current situation.

Most of the time you're so focused on what she says or what you think she's thinking that you have no idea what's really happening. You fluctuate from one extreme behaviour to another seeing if you can get some physical affection from her.

You'll do anything and everything to get her attention.

You cook and clean and buy her presents
You try to get a hug or a kiss from her multiple times a day
You make sexual comments as an attempt to flirt
You ask for sex or intimacy indirectly such as by offering to give her a massage
You get frustrated and upset when she rejects you or doesn't respond to your efforts

It's not that she doesn't notice, she notices everything you're doing and she feels your actions...but not in a good way. To her you're communicating with a loud speaker, and it TURNS HER OFF.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

This episode is about how "chasing" and "pursuing" what you want from women will never work. Getting affection, love and sex all starts with you knowing you're good enough without needing her to confirm that for you.

Here's my latest article that relates to this topic.
https://goodmenproject.com/marriage-2/shes-49-and-shes-done-with-romance-and-sex-stvhn/

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Most men were taught at a young age to put other people's needs first, that to be a good man, a good husband, a good lover...you must make sure everyone else is happy and looked after.

Anything else must mean you're selfish or worse...needy right? (yep, that's my trigger word right there).

The problem with this approach to life is that you and I learnt that to have a good relationship we had to be tentative, although we thought it meant we were being polite and respectful.

And it's simply NOT TRUE.

In fact it's this lack of belief in yourself that's the source of your frustration, fear and uncertainty with women and the quality of connection and intimacy in your life.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

All you want is to connect physically with your partner again. You've been trying hard to make her happy but she's distant and avoids spending time with you. So what can you do?

The article I mention in the episode is here: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/why-your-wife-wont-give-you-affection-and-what-to-do-about-it/

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun

Most guys who complain about lack of connection, intimacy and respect are battling a serious condition I'll call LOW VALUES SYNDROME.

If you want to be an effective man, better father and more attractive husband there are some very basic values you'll need.

Deciding that you're a man who can have serious conversations without resorting to meanness or getting defensive and upset is an example of a VALUE. It's a guiding MOP (Masculine Operating Principle).

In this episode I want to tell you about the THREE crucial values I think every man needs if he wants to create more connection, intimacy and self-respect.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
 
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
 
Most men don't.  
 
They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
 
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
 
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
 
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
 
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
 
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun