If you've ever been with a guy who thinks jackhammering is a virtue or who can't tell your clitoris from your clavicle, this episode is for you! (Pssst share it with a bloke you know).

Yumi Stynes chats to comedian and expert dater Nikki Britton about what makes for good sex.

Plus, sex therapist Aleks Trkulja, from The Pleasure Centre, gives tips on how to take on feedback in the bedroom.

This episode will answer questions like: 

• What do women want in sex? 
• How are women and men’s sexual desires different? 
• What can I do to increase arousal? 
• What are common turn offs? 
• What are the fundamental elements of good sex? 

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You can binge more episodes of Ladies, We Need to Talk on the ABC listen app (in Australia) or wherever you get your podcasts.  

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This episode contains references to sex, gender, men, women, clitoris, mental load, marriage, sex life, therapy, masturbation.