The Science of Happiness

Happiness Break: A Meditation for When Others Are Suffering


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Witnessing the suffering of others can be deeply painful. In this guided meditation, Anushka Fernandopulle helps you cultivate both compassion and the ability to soothe yourself in the face of that pain.

How to Do This Practice:

  1. Find somewhere peaceful, sit down and get comfortable. Once you’re ready, gently close or soften your eyes.
  2. Start taking deep breaths and relax your body. Part by part, release tension in different areas of your body.
  3. Think of someone or a group of people you know or have heard of who may be having a hard time. Bring to mind an image of them.
  4. Connect with whatever it is they are struggling with. Mentally, make some wishes of compassion for them. For example, “May you be free from pain.” Or, “I am here with you.”
  5. You can also use this practice to focus on your own pain. To do this, call to mind your struggles and give yourself the same compassion you gave others.

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    Today’s Happiness Break guide:

    ANUSHKA FERNANDOPULLE is a meditation teacher who trained in Buddhist meditation for over 30 years. After studying Buddhism at Harvard, she spent four years in full-time meditation training in the U.S., India, and Sri Lanka.

    Check out Anushka’s upcoming meditation retreats: https://www.anushkaf.org

    Follow Anushka on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/ytn3vvhz

    Check out Anushka’s Dharma Talks: https://tinyurl.com/ydacvamn

    Related Happiness Break episodes:

    Fierce Self-Compassion Break: https://tinyurl.com/yk9yzh9u

    Who Takes Care of You: https://tinyurl.com/5xmfkf73

    A Self-Compassion Meditation For Burnout: https://tinyurl.com/485y3b4y

    Related Science of Happiness episodes:

    How Holding Yourself Can Reduce Stress: https://tinyurl.com/2hvhkwe6

    How To Show Up For Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/56ktb9xc

    Are You Remembering the Good Times: https://tinyurl.com/483bkk2h

    We’d love to hear about your experience with this practice! Share your thoughts at [email protected] or use the hashtag #happinesspod.

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