He Said, She Said

Happy Valentine’s Day! Louise and Ryan discuss the various ways they could spend the big day, the best Valentine’s present Louise has ever received and unveil their new role-play identities (say goodbye to Ryan and hello to Spectre James!). 

In this episode, the pair play a savage game of Mr & Mrs, revealing who’s the better dancer, who’s the most attractive and who wears the trousers in the relationship…

Plus, Louise reveals why her dad takes a printer on holiday and a listener asks for advice on how to manage a relationship between an extrovert and an introvert.

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Louise and Ryan continue their search for a country home, as Ryan gives us some updates on his recent house viewings and reveals that catfishing is rife on RightMove…

In this episode, Louise divulges what she tells her life coach about her relationship, the pair discuss being sensitive to the moon and Louise teaches Ryan all about the menstrual cycle.

Plus, Louise and Ryan discuss their son’s new pink ballet shoes and a listener shares their dilemma: He Said “I’m struggling to bond with my child”.

The poem Louise mentions is ‘All I See Is You’ by Jessica Urlichs:

Mama,

I can’t see past you right now, I’m so small and everything’s a little blurry.

All I see is you.

When you feel alone, like the walls are closing in, remember I’m here too. I know your world has changed and the days feel a little lonely. But they aren’t lonely for me.

You are my everything.

When you feel like you don’t know what you’re doing, you’re making it look easy to me. Even though we’re still getting to know each other, you know me better than

anyone.

I trust you.

When you think some nights you’ll never sleep again, you will. We both will. But I’m scared right now. I promise I’m not manipulating you. I just need your smell and comfort. Do you feel that tug in your heart when we’re apart? I do too.

I miss you.

When you feel as if you’ve achieved nothing, please know, my cup has never been so full. 

The days that get away on you will be some of my best memories of us playing together on the ground.

I love you.

When you feel like you don’t know who you are anymore, when you turn away from the mirror. That face will be the one I look to when I achieve something, the one I search for in a crowd. The reason for my first smile.

You’re perfect to me.

When you feel like the weight of it all is heavy in your heart, please know I’ve never felt lighter. Can I lay here with you a little longer? 

I won’t always need you like this.

But I need you right now.

When you feel as if you have nothing left to give, when I see your hands outstretched at me, pleading. When we’re both crying. I wish I could talk, but I can’t.

If I could I would tell you,

There’s a reason I chose you.

I can’t see past you right now mama, because you are my world.

It will get bigger, soon enough.

But for now,

All I see is you.

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Louise and Ryan discuss future plans to visit Japan and why having a good umbrella is a sign of self-respect…

In this episode, Ryan shares his fascination with the Japanese concept of ikigai, the pair consider what we can learn from people living in Blue Zones and Louise reveals her bucket-list goal of appearing on the Real Housewives.

Plus, the pair discuss who would prefer to die first and a listener asks for advice about rebuilding self-confidence after being called crazy by an ex-boyfriend.

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Louise and Ryan discuss possible new income streams through Louise’s feet and the pair discuss the spectrum of masculinity and femininity… 

In this episode, Ryan shares his hilarious impressions of the Thompson family’s twitches, Louise reveals what her relationship resolutions are for 2025 and why cleaning the house is like therapy for Ryan. 

Plus, Ryan tells the story of meeting the future 007 without realising who he was, and a listener shares their dilemma: “He Said: I’m not ready to move in just yet”. 

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Louise is talking about future medical plans and her possible ‘barbie butt’ surgery and Ryan reveals the childhood TV character that his fiancé reminds him of first thing in the morning…

In this episode, Louise and Ryan discuss why you don’t need to prove yourself with an anecdote from Chanel, why Louise sees her vulnerability as a defence mechanism and the different routines men and women have to go from a 2/10 to presentable!

Plus, a listener is worried her health anxiety has ruined her boyfriend’s holiday, so the pair offer some much needed advice. 

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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2025 is picking up the pace, as Ryan reveals the insane challenge he’s embarking on in January…

They discuss Ryan’s upcoming ultra marathon in the desert (and all the different ways you need to protect your bits), Louise’s incredible turnout at a school sports day only a few months after surgery and how she’s slowly repairing her relationship with exercise. 

Plus, a listener writes in with a dilemma about weaponised incompetence – so how do you deal with a partner who has to be told what to do? 

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Happy New Year! Louise and Ryan are back with a debate which may shape what 2025 looks like for them…

Ryan shares his dreams of getting a home outside of London and why a slower life is on the cards for his future, whilst Louise argues for the bustling adventures city life can bring and all the things she’d miss about living in the capital. 

Plus, the pair dive into a listener submission from a 25 year old who feels like she’s behind compared to all of her peers. 

LINKS:

• The Coffee Shop mentioned in our Listener Submission: @no41coffeeco

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CREDITS:

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Production by Astrid

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Happy Christmas all! Ryan and Louise are getting festive in this week’s episode. 

Louise and Ryan compare their Christmas traditions, revealing which of them is obsessed with sparkles and tinsel and who prefers a simpler setup. 

They discuss the pros and cons of wish lists vs gifting surprises, Ryan shares the tragic story of finding out the truth about Father Christmas and Louise explains why she hates opening presents in front of other people.

Finally, we hear your Christmas dilemmas, which highlights the struggles of Christmas with the inlaws…

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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We’re heading to the altar this week as Louise and Ryan plan their dream wedding!

The pair recap their chaotic proposal story, they discuss what marriage ultimately means to them and answer the big question… why aren’t they married yet?

Wedding planning then begins as Ryan reveals his aspirations of a wedding in the Swiss Alps, Louise ponders what a UK wedding might look like and the pair nail down outfits, food and of course – the stag and hen dos. 

Send your voice memos or stories to [email protected] for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.

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CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

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Louise is back on the podcast, and in this raw conversation with Ryan, she opens up about what the last 3 weeks have actually been like.

Louise bravely reveals the series of events which led her back to emergency surgery, she shares the details of her recovery and the routine she managed to create in order to get through it, as well as why she was left feeling guilty about the whole ordeal. 

Plus, Louise and Ryan discuss the lighter moments during this time, including why it’s so important to focus on what really matters and do the things that make you happy. 

Finally, they share a listener submission who is stuck in a friendship slump, and Ryan offers an insightful ‘rocket ship’ analogy which may help you reassess your adult friendships. 

LINKS:

• Marissa Peer Guided Meditation for Physical Healing
• Paul McKenna Sleep Meditation
• Stillness Is The Key – Ryan Holiday

Send your voice memos or stories to [email protected] for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.

Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbey

CREDITS:

Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.