He Wants You Mad!

Some men provoke anger on purpose. 

When he’s defensive or distant, it’s often guilt—he already feels he’s not doing enough. 

If you explode, he gets the alibi he needs to pull away: “See? You’re always angry.”

Step out of that trap.

Take two slow steps back, say nothing, and let his words land. 

Don’t feed the guilt loop.

 The shift in energy alone can change the whole dynamic.

Many of us feel drawn to the men who give the least, while dismissing the good ones. 

That isn’t weakness—it’s subconscious self-protection. 

The first step toward change is to notice the pattern and stop giving away your life-force to men who won’t meet you halfway.

Lean back.

Breathe.

Protect your energy.

When you stop reacting, you break the cycle and reclaim your power to choose love that feels safe, healthy, and mutual.

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Love, Rori