We're talking sex in media with Jourdain Searles; comedian and film/TV critic. Discussing all different types of sex scenes from Babygirl to Severence. We are also chatting about Jourdain's Twitter thread of sex advice that she did earlier this year and how it relates to the "IUD Debate" that took over Twitter for two days. 

TW Assault / Abortion Laws

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We have the pleasure of talking to one of the stars of Schitt's Creek; award winning actress Emily Hampshire and her podcast co-host Katie Boland (writer/director/actress/producer). Emily and Katie tell us all about life in the industry, from how they were treated as being female child stars to their treatment now as adults. We discuss their first sex scenes, introductions to intimacy coordinators, and how media they have made has changed people's views on sexuality and gender. We also talk in depth about Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) - a vastly under researched illness which Emily and Katie both suffer from-- and what medicines they have discovered to make that time of the month a little easier.

TW: Assault, violence, and politics

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Today we are talking about what the dating scene is currently like from a man's perspective with comedian, actor, director, and show creator Dan Perlman (Showtime's Flatbush Misdemeanors and Cramming). Is there a male loneliness epidemic? Or is dating just exhausting? Dan tells us many stories including his experiences dating openly; when he entered into an open relationship in the completely wrong way, times that he has hooked up with people in open relationships, and who should not enter into open relationships, ever, at all.  We talk the risks and rewards of putting yourself out there, early first crushes, sexual urban legends that we heard about growing up in NYC, and finally Dan's new film that is being produced by our very own Charlotte Kassimir!

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Are you dating and looking for new tips, tricks, and pick up lines? Or has your dating life come to an end and you just want to hear some really good dating stories? This is the episode for you! Remy chats with Portland based stand up comedian and Beast Games contestant Megan Otto. Megan rose to internet fame on Instagram and TikTok by going on dates and sharing her experiences with the world. She explains why she started sharing her stories so publicly, what stories are off limits for her to share, and the peaks & pitfalls of being an open book about your private life. Megan and Remy both take a trip down dating memory lane and go back as far as highschool experiences all the way up to their current relationships and then debate: Should you have relationships in the office/workplace? It is a relatable and invigorating episode and we can't wait for you to hear it!

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We can't hold it in any longer! We're FINALLY talking golden showers, water sports, piss kinks-- whatever you want to call it-- with Portland based, and liquid based comedian Mack Lee. Mack tells us about their piss kink; how they discovered they have one, where they think it came from, and where they like to pee/ be peed on (body-wise AND location-wise!) We discuss celebrities who have piss kinks, drinking pee, spitting or swallowing, and the etiquette & proper prep that you should do if piss play is on the menu. Finally Remy and Mack talk about fantasy literature and smut as well as the dangers that AI character chat bots pose for impressionable children and teens. Like always Mack's experience is their own so if you have a different take on piss kinks or different type of piss kink please write in and let us know! 

Charities mentioned in this episode concerning the fires in LA: California Fire Foundation, Habitat for Humanity for Greater Los Angeles, Friends in Deed, Dream Center, World Central Kitchen, Community Foundation's Wildfire Recovery Fund, Baby2Baby

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Kicking off 2025 with an extremely fun episode with Remy’s friend, hairstylist and occasional adult film actor Christian Camacho. We’re talking about birthday orgies, fisting, role-play, foot-play, sex work, breath work, losing your mojo, & jacking off: it can be HARD! And not in the good way. We discuss labels in the LGBTQIA community, Christian’s road to self discovery, and how bisexuality and queerness is viewed in the media vs. with people in every day life. Finally Remy reads the Cumpanion’s sexual goals for 2025 and Christian tells us his own goal for the new year. Happy New Year everyone, we hope your wildest dreams c*m true! 

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We've c*m back for a brand new season AND How C*m's Birthday, (born Christmas Day, 2017) To celebrate we are talking all things Sabrina Carpenter with drag queen and pop-culture aficionado Poutine Levine and our beloved Robyn Kennedy. We talk about Sabrina's unapologetic horniness, the ability and freedom to express sexuality through pop music, and the hurdles that women in the music industry have to face; not to mention how much harder it is when there's beef between two icons -- what happened to women supporting women? We cover everything from Britney and Christina in the 1990s-2000s to Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift today, the rise of Chappell Roan and other queer icons in the music industry (and get some good new recs) and finally, Rob gives us a rundown of her current relationship which has been long and lovely as opposed to previous short and sour ones. Welc*m back + a happy horny holiday to you all!

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One more episode for this season! Yippee! Remy welcomes her friend, a mystery guest, to talk about an experiment she did -- in which she went on 50 first dates in one year. They talk about why she did it, how the dates went, and what she learned from it. There *are* spoilers from the 2004 movie 50 First Dates in this episode, but it is not an episode about love and amnesia. 

It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned. 

*Married people can still play, duh

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Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.

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