Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok

Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidence, how to love your body, affirmations you can say to yourself, and how to practice sexual meditation. We also chat about the different types of sex therapy, and how you know when it's time to do it.

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Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.

We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love.

Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it!

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Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world, and how everyone feels about Remy's O drought. Maybe drought is the wrong word at this point because the orgasms HAVE occurred-- it's just not as easy anymore. So Betsy and Lola both give Remy assignments! We also talk about new classes that Lola is offering as well as sober and fun sex parties she hosts.

TW: Blood, needles, food and sex

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This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cost. Lindsey also lets us in on her experiences with pregnancy sex, sex and sobriety, masturbation after getting married, orgasm droughts and so more. Finally, she gives Remy an assignment that reminds us of her first appearance on How C*m 6 years ago!

CW: Remy discusses the current state of affairs in the Middle East from :30-6:30

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Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopause went for her, all the symptoms that can come with menopause, how to deal with it, and the fact that sex lives DO NOT STOP after 50. We also talk about the Golden Girls and the OG Samantha, Blanche Devereaux and how her first orgasm was allegedly after menopause (shocking!) and how that could possibly be a real thing.

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Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Companion stories about their own droughts/ how they have fixed them, and Charlotte gives Remy a new assignment for this new chapter.

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Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone.

Read Kristofer's Piece "Dad Used to Have Boobs (And They Were Kind of Big)

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Today's guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around dick riding! Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and making adjustments.

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What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbringings can affect our attachment styles, and what we need to do to heal ourselves. We discuss therapy, what goes on in couples counseling and how it's not just about trying to keep couples together, but also about finding truth and clarity. Finally we learn some spicy stuff; Dr. Joy tells us about 'lust languages', erotic blueprints, and how to have good sex (spoiler alert: it involves sleep!).

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A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christianity today. Finally we hear all about different songs to c*m to, songs that feel like an orgasm, songs that have orgasms in them and so many other steamy types of music (playlists c*mming soon!!)

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