In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive deep into one of the most painful questions we get: how do you forgive a betrayal that shattered your heart, your trust, and your sense of safety? Amee opens up about what it was like to forgive D’s infidelity, how she found the strength to love like Jesus, and why forgiveness doesn’t mean being a doormat. Together, they break down the difference between forgiveness and trust, why betrayal feels like grieving a death, and how forgiveness is ultimately a gift you give yourself.

We also explore biblical insights, like the difference between Judas and Peter’s betrayals, the weight of carrying bitterness, and why forgiveness can transform you even when the other person doesn’t change. Whether you’re healing from infidelity, betrayal by a friend, or wounds from your past, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and give you tools to move forward. Stick around — you might just leave feeling lighter.

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Timestamps:

00:00 Intro — How do you forgive betrayal?

02:15 Amee’s story: Forgiving after infidelity

05:00 Betrayal feels like grieving the living

08:30 Forgiveness vs. trust: Why they’re different

11:20 The Judas vs. Peter principle

14:45 How unforgiveness affects your body

18:00 Biblical truths about forgiveness

22:30 Can you really heal a shattered relationship?

25:15 How to ask God for help forgiving

28:00 Final thoughts + announcements