Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes

How I’m Approaching My 5 Friendship Goals of 2023


Listen Later

The past few years, loneliness has become the new normal.

Yes, we want to learn how to self-soothe, to sit with ourselves, to be bored. What’s NOT good? Constantly wishing you had more connections. Society tells us that making friends is hard as an adult, but I believe we CAN impact this area of our life through small actions that build up over time.

So today, I’m going to tell you how I’m trying to figure out this problem in my own life through my 5 friendship goals for 2023 – plus the small actions I’m taking to get there. (Side note: listening to my episode about friendship goals might help in understanding today’s show.)

In this episode you’ll hear about:

  • How I’m mixing up my patterns and putting myself out there in the world, from having random conversations with people in coffee shops, to going to classes
  • Benefits of formal communities, including: never knowing who will walk through the door, common goals, learning and improving ourselves, and different perspectives
  • How I’m trying to make more business friends – specifically, entrepreneurs building online-based businesses – including partaking in more groups and saying YES
  • One way Michael and I have decided to use our money to further our goals of spending more time with friends who’ve since moved far away from us
  • How I’m reinvesting in my historic friendships, from connecting virtually to reinvigorating our old traditions through travel and check-ins
  • Getting creative and using your resources to create your own systems to invest in social wellness

Resources & Links

Visit my website to see the “Your People” framework, which can help to understand your friends, family and community.

Like what you hear? Visit my website, leave me a voicemail, and follow me on Instagram

Want to take this conversation a step further? Send this episode to a friend. Tell them you found it interesting and use what we just talked about as a conversation starter the next time you and your friend hang out!

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually TakesBy Alex Alexander

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

53 ratings


More shows like Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes

View all
Happier with Gretchen Rubin by Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

12,931 Listeners

The Baggage Reclaim Sessions by Natalie Lue

The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

670 Listeners

The Terri Cole Show by Terri Cole

The Terri Cole Show

1,358 Listeners

How to Be Fine by Kristen and Jolenta

How to Be Fine

5,400 Listeners

Highest Self Podcast® by Sahara Rose

Highest Self Podcast®

5,710 Listeners

For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast by Jen Hatmaker

For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast

6,376 Listeners

Heal Squad x Maria Menounos by Heal Squad

Heal Squad x Maria Menounos

2,030 Listeners

The Liz Moody Podcast by Liz Moody

The Liz Moody Podcast

2,969 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,044 Listeners

ShrinkChicks by Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT and Emmalee Bierly, LMFT

ShrinkChicks

723 Listeners

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown by Vox Media Podcast Network

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

23,607 Listeners

Friend Forward by Danielle Bayard Jackson -- Female Friendship Expert

Friend Forward

264 Listeners

The Best Advice Show by Zak Rosen

The Best Advice Show

365 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,225 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,678 Listeners