What if the secret to a happier life isn’t positive thinking — but remembering that life is finite?

After caring for more than 1,000 people at the end of life, Suzanne B. O’Brien, RN discovered a profound truth: awareness of death doesn’t create fear — it creates gratitude.

Recently quoted by The New York Times on happiness, Suzanne shares how working with dying patients transformed her life. What once felt like obligation — “I have to” — became privilege — “I get to.” Even ordinary moments began to feel extraordinary.

In this episode, she explores how consciously acknowledging mortality awakens presence, clarity, gratitude, and deeper life meaning. She also reflects on research highlighted by The Washington Post showing that healthy mortality awareness can actually increase happiness and life satisfaction.

• Why death awareness increases gratitude instead of anxiety

After sitting bedside with thousands in their final days, Suzanne noticed a powerful pattern:

Death is not the enemy.

Because when we understand death,