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How To Ask For What You Want


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So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.


In this episode you’ll learn:

  • How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.
  • Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.
  • Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.

  • Show Notes:

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