Sex With Emily

How To Ask For What You Want

Listen Later

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.


In this episode you’ll learn:

  • How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.
  • Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.
  • Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.


    • Show Notes:

    • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
    • Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 
    • SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 
    • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube
    • Let’s text: Sign up here
    • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.


      • See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      ...more
      View all episodesView all episodes
      Download on the App Store
      Sex With EmilyBy Dr. Emily Morse
      • 4.3
      • 4.3
      • 4.3
      • 4.3
      • 4.3

      4.3

      6,461 ratings

      More shows like Sex With Emily

      View all
      Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast by Cloud10

      Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast

      1,959 Listeners

      Strictly Anonymous Confessions by Kathy Kay

      Strictly Anonymous Confessions

      1,608 Listeners

      The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice by Sean Jameson

      The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

      876 Listeners

      Shameless Sex by Amy Baldwin and April Lampert| Pleasure Podcasts

      Shameless Sex

      3,007 Listeners

      Come Curious by Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE

      Come Curious

      396 Listeners

      Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami by Kim Anami

      Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

      1,470 Listeners

      The Curious Girl Diaries by thecuriousgirldiaries.com

      The Curious Girl Diaries

      630 Listeners

      Sex and Psychology Podcast by Dr. Justin Lehmiller

      Sex and Psychology Podcast

      292 Listeners

      The Horny Housewife by Jordyn Hakes | Pleasure Podcasts

      The Horny Housewife

      1,560 Listeners

      The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD by Alexandra Stockwell, MD

      The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

      165 Listeners

      Pillow Talks by Vanessa & Xander Marin

      Pillow Talks

      2,505 Listeners

      Girls Gone Deep by Elle and Vee

      Girls Gone Deep

      260 Listeners

      Sex Stories 🔥 by Audiodesires

      Sex Stories 🔥

      140 Listeners

      Pineapple Pinup: Hotwife Swingers Life by Tasty Tress

      Pineapple Pinup: Hotwife Swingers Life

      142 Listeners

      Naughty Sex Stories by Audiodesires

      Naughty Sex Stories

      42 Listeners