It’s easy to blame your exes for failed relationships. And believe that if you could just FIND the right partner, then you’d have lasting love.

But what if you need to BE the right partner in order to build a great relationship?

Roy Biancalana is a certified relationship coach and a nationally recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. For the last 15 years, Roy has supported single people in the art of attracting healthy, sustainable intimate relationships.

Roy also serves as host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast and bestselling author of several books, including Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love and the Pursuit of Intimacy.

On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Roy joins Katherine to explore how his own positive experience with a relationship coach inspired his career in the field and explain why we have to let go of blame to break the cycle of breakups.

Roy discusses the concept of relationship personas, describing how each persona attracts its reciprocal and why Roy the Rescuer developed a pattern of dating damsels in distress.

Listen in for Roy’s insight on transforming the relationship you’re already in and learn how to build a healthy, long-term relationship by getting into ‘relationship shape.’

Topics Covered

How Roy’s experience with a relationship coach inspired his career in the field

Roy’s mission to help others break the vicious cycle of breakups

Why you have to let go of blame and finger pointing to become coachable

The concept of relationship personas and how each persona attracts its reciprocal

Why Roy the Rescuer attracted damsels in distress

Discovering your relationship persona and uncovering your authentic self

Why being the right partner is key in building a healthy, sustainable relationship

How to make the relationship you’re in better by getting into ‘relationship shape’

How to build the relationship muscle of letting go of the past

Connect with Roy Biancalana

Coaching with Roy:

https://coachingwithroy.com/

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-attracting-lasting-love-podcast/id1561528328

Connect with Katherine Miller

The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/

Miller Law Group: https://westchesterfamilylaw.com/

Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1

The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246

Email: [email protected]

Call (914) 738-7765

Resources

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment:

https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love and the Pursuit of Intimacy by Roy Biancalana:

https://coachingwithroy.com/roy-biancalanas-book/