"It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength."

If you've been tuning into Hotter Than Ever, you know that while our host Erin offers plenty of dating advice, especially for those re-entering the scene after a marriage, her aim isn’t necessarily to find love herself. But regardless of whether you're skeptical about love or seeking it with all your heart, you'll enjoy this conversation with Lilli Bewley. Lilli is a dating coach, teacher, author and host of the Lilly Bewley podcast, with a mission to help 1 million people find true love in their lifetime. In this episode, Erin and Lili delve into the complexities of modern dating through the empowering lens of the goddess archetype, transforming how women view themselves and their relationships.

Join us as we explore embodying confidence, self-love, and actionable steps every woman can take to attract epic love. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their relationships, improve their dating experiences, and gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Together, we delve into:

1. The power of the goddess archetype in enriching women's self-improvement and dating journeys
2. Strategies for healing perfectionism and control, opening oneself to vulnerability and honest communication
3. The significance of emotional availability in partners and the role of past trauma in shaping relationship dynamics
4. Personal stories of setting boundaries, fostering understanding, and creating healthy, supportive partnerships
5. Different archetypes of women—chill woman, fortress woman, goddess woman, and magnetic woman—and the path to becoming a magnetic woman
6. The mirror effect in relationships, reflecting our internal states externally, and the importance of inner healing work
7. Practical insights on overcoming the fear of being "too much" and embracing self-love and confidence in dating and life

OUR GUEST: Lilli Bewley is a Dating Coach for Finding Love with over 10 years of experience in personal development. She, herself, went from just surviving in life to thriving in love & purpose. Currently, she is helping single & successful women love dating & find true love. Lilli is on a mission to educate people on how dating can be fun again after a divorce, even in their 30s & 40s & 50s, & even if they’ve been single for forever. We have the ability to create magnetic energy in our dating lives even if we have to perform & be high achievers in other parts of our lives. Her signature Quiz, The Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz, will show women their blocks to love & help them find their true love match.

Want more Lilli? Find her online at https://www.lillibewley.com/ and listen to the Lilli Bewley Podcast. Follow her on:

1. Instagram: @lillibewley
2. TikTok: @lillibewley
3. Facebook: @LilliBewley
4. YouTube:@lillibewley

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