A Submissive Wife should always be honest if you have done something wrong admit to it don't try to hide what you have done wrong or deny what you have done.

Your husband deserves your honesty, and the truth will always come out in the end.

If you are not honest, then you will deserve the consequences of being dishonest.

Honesty is always the best policy. No matter how bad the problem is.

 A Submissive wife attending social events & parties on her own should remember to dress like a lady and be careful what she drinks.

You do not want to attract the unwanted attention of other men.

You don't have to be nearly naked to look good, and you don't have to be drunk to enjoy yourself.

Before refusing your husbands advances remember A Submissive Wife should want to submit freely to her husband.

If you feel unwell explain this to your husband, don't expect him to be a mind reader

When you got married, you became one body and belonged to each other.

There is nothing more lonely than a cold marriage bed.

The more time you spend being intimate with your husband, the more you will want to be intimate with him the stronger your bond will become.

A Submissive Wife should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage.

What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your husband without being disrespectful and hurtful.

Do not say things that are designed to hurt your husband's feelings.

You love your husband and "Love Is Kind."

A Submissive Wife should never forget the importance of fun and laughter in her marriage.

Make time to watch a funny movie together, share jokes with your husband, make each other laugh, the more you laugh together, the more your brains associate fun and happiness when you are together, making your bond even stronger.

Your home should be a place of fun not war

Stop trying to change your husband he is who he is.

If you were able to change your husband, he would no longer be the man you fell in love with.

Is that what you would want to happen.

React in a positive way to what your husband has said

How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did?

If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself.

Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy.

Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time?

He will see negative remarks as a challenge to his authority in the home.

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily

How often do you react to what your husband has said without thinking about it first? Moreover, how often have you overreacted?

Engaging your mouth before you engage your brain is one of the biggest causes of petty arguments in a marriage.

If you stop and think before you react, you will eliminate lots of petty arguments from your marriage.

A calm, considered reply will be received better by your husband; he will listen and be more likely to see your point of view when you talk to him calmly instead of an instant heated reply.

Often when you stop and think you will react entirely differently, you will see that what your husband has said is not as bad as you first thought and is not worth an argument and in many cases he is probably right to have said what he said.

When you don't stop and think before replying you are creating a more relaxed atmosphere in the home, instant heated replies cause unnecessary tension and in some cases, the husband will feel you are trying to take away his authority.

A husband who is new to this lifestyle and still adjusting to being HoH will feel threatened and confused by this, while a husband who is sure of his position in the home may take a firm stand on this and deal with your behaviour accordingly.

Remember: Engage your brain before your mouth

A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband.

Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control.

Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart.

In a traditional gender role marriage "Your Husband Will Rule Over You"

Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you

Are you guilty of the following:

Interrupting your husband when he speaks

Finishing his sentences for him

Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important

Looking around instead of at him while he speaks

Checking your phone while he speaks

Stat talking to another person

It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks.

Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him.

Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason