in this episode, i’m talking all about how to detach from a guy and stop caring literally at all. i know how easy it is to get caught up obsessing over someone, overthinking what they’re doing, and letting it take over your mood, but it doesn’t have to be like that. i share my personal take on emotional regulation, self-worth, and why shifting the focus back to yourself is the ultimate power move. we’ll get into recognizing controlling or toxic behaviors, how to ease the anxiety that comes with dating, and practical tips to rebuild your confidence. i also touch on the way men often view dating dynamics, and why it’s so important to ask yourself what you’re actually gaining from entertaining certain situations. if you’ve been feeling stuck, this episode is your reminder to take your power back and stop wasting energy on people who don’t deserve it.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 Introduction to Obsession and Relationships03:05 Understanding Emotional Control in Relationships05:40 Detaching and Focusing on Self-Care08:32 The Importance of Self-Value and Independence11:10 Recognizing Red Flags in Situationships13:37 Gaining Clarity on Relationship Dynamics16:30 Final Thoughts and Listener Questions#StellaRaePodcast