The Way You Show Up

How to Disagree Without Losing Friends or Family


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Do you have a relationship that is struggling over a disagreement? 

With everything going on in the world and our society, there is a lot of fighting and division happening all around us.

In this episode, Kimberly shares five things you can do when a disagreement challenges you. Many of us have encountered conversations about politics, and we're quick to stand our ground, believe what we believe, and disagree with the other side. But, you'll learn how to have a respectful conversation when you disagree and come out of it with more love and appreciation for the other person once you seek to understand.

Our psychological default is to fight to get our way and not be wrong. But we have to fight against that if we want to have a better society, if we're going to have better relationships and want to be the best version of ourselves. 

Today’s Speaker: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships

Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master’s degree in psychology for over 10 years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching the ways that attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reaches over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best that they can be.  

Website: www.PIESUniversity.com

Get the Attraction Assessment by visiting PIESUniversity.com, scroll down and wait for the pop-up. 

You’ll Learn

  • How to have respectful conversations, so you seek to understand
  • Five key points to remember when you disagree with someone
  • No matter what the disagreement is, we are all on the same team

Season 2, Ep 69: How to Disagree Without Losing Friends or Family with Kimberly Beam Holmes


I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.

The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."

We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.

If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.

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