The ANTD Podcast

How to Get Them to Finally Open Up About The Affair


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They cheated... now they won’t talk. 😔

If you're trying to rebuild trust after infidelity but feel like you're pulling teeth to get honesty from your man, this episode is for you. Amee and D. open up about their real-life journey through betrayal, what helped them finally have breakthrough conversations, and how YOU can create a safe space for truth — without losing your mind or begging for answers.

You'll learn:

✅ How to create emotional safety without enabling

✅ Why trickle-truth delays healing

✅ What to say (and what NOT to say) to get him to open up

✅ How to handle the truth once it finally comes out

Whether you're still in shock, trying to decide if you should stay, or desperate for closure — this episode gives you clarity and hope.

👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇

📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching

🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls!

🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🎧 Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏱ TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – The truth won’t come out unless he feels safe

00:45 – Why pressure shuts him down (and what works instead)

01:10 – 63% of cheaters don’t tell the truth because of fear

02:00 – When you want to explode but need a real conversation

04:40 – Scripture and wisdom that shifted everything

05:50 – Why you must be calm to get clarity

07:00 – How long healing really takes (and why)

10:15 – The damage of trickle-truth

12:00 – When full disclosure leads to real healing

14:00 – Why honesty is better than imagination

16:40 – How we stay healed — boundaries, calls, coaching

18:00 – Our encouragement to anyone still hurting

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