In Episode 72 of The ANTD Podcast Amee and D. Widders dive DEEP into the topic of DEFENSIVENESS in relationships and how it DESTROYS TRUST and STOPS INTIMACY.

Follow along as we explain how being defensive after infidelity blocks healing and transparency, shifts focus away from responsibility, and delays the rebuilding of trust and intimacy.

If you apply what we teach in this episode you will drastically speed up yoru healing after betrayal and through humility, accountability, and transparency - not defensiveness -you can being to heal, rebuild trust and have a stronger relationship that WILL LAST!

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⏱️ Episode Time Stamps

• 0:00 – 0:37 | Intro & Theme: Defensiveness as a silent killer in relationships
• 0:37 – 1:09 | Why defensiveness destroys rebuilding after betrayal
• 1:09 – 3:48 | Point 1: Defensiveness blocks healing and transparency
• 3:48 – 5:35 | How to approach your partner without triggering defensiveness
• 5:35 – 11:26 | Point 2: Defensiveness shifts focus away from responsibility
• 11:26 – 13:41 | Intimacy, defensiveness, and different phases of relationships
• 13:41 – 15:25 | Why prayer and intentional intimacy matter in marriage
• 15:25 – 19:35 | Point 3: Defensiveness delays rebuilding trust and intimacy
• 19:35 – 20:37 | Healing takes humility, patience, and accountability
• 20:37 – 22:52 | Closing thoughts, resources, and prayer