Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn’t realize turned you on…but here you are. It’s super hot, and now, you can’t stop thinking about it. Our sexual fantasies are here to help us understand ourselves better, so on today’s show I take your calls on sexual fantasies, what they mean, and how to turn them into a reality. First, she masturbates in the bathroom when she knows her neighbors are home, within earshot. He loves nipple play on his body and watching his wife do it to herself. They’re dabbling in prostate play, so I provide step-by-step instructions for finger stimulation. She’s afraid of rejection, but also fantasizes about it: how can she indulge this fantasy in a healthy way? All this and more on this revealing episode. 
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Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her new book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

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Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today. In this episode you’ll learn: 
How oral sex can make or break your relationship
What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone

 Show Notes:
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How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind 

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Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz

Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life. In this episode you’ll learn:
What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
How to get back into the dating scene

 Show Notes:
Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
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Pleasure Planner + Other Guides

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Are You Touch-Starved?

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.  On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation! In this episode you’ll learn: 
How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly

 Show Notes:
Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
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Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
Ejaculate Responsibly

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Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.  In this episode you’ll learn:
My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex
How to deal with vaginismus
Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem

 Show Notes:
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Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?

Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!). On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.  In this episode you’ll learn:
Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love
What to do when you and your partner are both submissive
When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go

 Show Notes:
Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
Sex and Psychology

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