On today's episode I chat with Anna Vincentz, a Level 3 IFS therapist who resides in Denmark.

We talk about:

1. Attachment: the nervous system and inner and outer coregulation with parents, children, partners, clients and therapists

2. New Danish Parenting: Children always make sense, Relationships matter most, and conscious parenting.

Anna says- Parts don't want to settle for unconditional love and attachment from Self. When they actually get connection from Self they realize it is not settling at all.

And- We don't need to lean in to our partners from our young parts. Our parts need to lean in to Self and then our Self can lean out into our partners.

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Check out Anna's podcast and articles here:

IFS therapy — IFS & Familieterapeut Anna Vincentz MPF

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I'm grateful for Jack Reardon who created new music. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott's IFS Stepping Stones Program. You can follow Jack on Instagram at bonzemusic.

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Enjoy!