I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship

I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship

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  • YWCA and LGBTQIA Resources for Survivors

    Domestic abuse and sexual violence is often seen through a lens of cisgender, heterosexual relationships. It's an easy stereotype to fall back on. Unfortunately, abuse occurs across all relationship types, regardless of sexual or gender identity. J. Kyon, Community Impact Lead at the Kalamazoo YWCA, joins Dan Moyle on this episode to talk about the intersections of marginalized community members of the LGBTQIA+ Community as they face abuse while also facing societal judgements.

    Kalamazoo YWCA

    Why Pronouns Matter

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    If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

    Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

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    26 min
  • Surviving 'Shameguilt' After Abuse with Lois Hollis

    Lois Hollis, RN, BSN, REV. is a shame guilt educator, counselor, filmmaker. In this episode, Lois shifts our opinion on the taboo subject, shame and guilt.

    As a trailblazer, she helped create one of the first Kidney Hemodialysis Units in the USA in 1966. Today Lois establishes shame guilt as an independent study. Her 50 years’ experience in health, 15 years’ researching, and counseling brings NEW knowledge of these misunderstood conditions to release us from shame guilt blaming. Lois’ first film, "Out of Discord Into Harmony," was released in 2008. Her new film "I'm Good" makes shame guilt visible.

    Links for Lois:

    • Website
    • YouTube
    • Facebook
    • LinkedIn
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      If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

      Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

      We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

       

      37 min
    • What is Elder Abuse with St Joseph County Commission on Aging

      Pamela Riley, Executive Director of the St. Joseph County Commission on Aging, joins Dan Moyle to discuss Elder Abuse Awareness Month. In this episode, learn what elder abuse looks like, how you can keep an eye on your aging neighbors, the warning signs and more.

      Links:

      • St. Joseph County Commission on Aging website
      • Find an enrichment center near you
      • St. Joseph County Commission on Aging on Facebook
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        If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

        Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

        We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

        23 min
      • Programming Note: A Brief Hiatus

        A quick programming note: I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship will take a brief hiatus for the month of May. We will return in June with new episodes. Thank you for listening.

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        If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

        Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

        We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

        4 min
      • Was That a Red Flag? with Author Dean Anderson

        Healthy relationships look different for everyone. And sometimes, an unhealthy relationship isn't the fault of just one person. Looking for the red flags can be hard work. That's the idea behind Dean Anderson's book Was That a Red Flag?

        Dean shares his story of how he wrote the book and how he's helping people dealing with their relationships, find warning signs, and make better decisions.

        Links:

        • Was That a Red Flag?
        • Information on Dean
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          If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

          Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

          We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

          25 min
        • Child Abuse Prevention Month - What Do Child Advocates at DASAS Do?

          National Child Abuse Prevention Month recognizes the importance of families and communities working together to strengthen families to prevent child abuse and neglect. (National Child Abuse Awareness Month resource) Domestic And Sexual Abuse Services (DASAS) has child advocates to help prevent child abuse, to help children facing abuse and to offer services for families. On this episode, Claudia and a DASAS panel cover what child advocates do for the community.

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          If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

          Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

          We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

          21 min
        • Keeping Our Kids Safe with Renee Abrams and Katey McPherson of Bark

          Renee Abrams and Katey McPherson of Bark, a technology to help parents and caregivers proactively monitor text messages, social media and more for their children's safety, join Dan on this episode to talk about keeping our kids safe from sexual assault online.

          From red flags to technology to help, this conversation covers a lot as we continue our Sexual Assault Awareness Month coverage.

          Resources mentioned in this episode:

          • Bark
          • Protect Young Eyes
          • Talking About Sex (website)
          • Peggy Orenstein (books)
          • Common Sense Media
          • Building Boys (website)
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            If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

            Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

            We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

            39 min
          • Talking to Our Kids About Sexual Assault Without Scaring Them

            During Sexual Assault Awareness Month, we are helping parents and caretakers talk to their children about sexual assault. It's not easy to approach the subject without scaring (and scarring) them. But it's also not good to ignore the possibilities. On this episode, a panel of DASAS team members tackle the question "I'm afraid of scaring my children by talking to them about sexual abuse, but I'm also afraid not to talk to them about it. What should I do?"

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            If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

            Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

            We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

            26 min
          • Sexual Abuse in the Media

            In this episode, DASAS Executive Director Krista DeBoer shares information about a presentation she gave the DASAS Board of Directors on media coverage— news and entertainment media— on sexual assault, harassment, abuse and rape.

            Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) is a campaign each April to raise public awareness about sexual assault and educate communities and individuals on how to prevent sexual violence. The goal is to bring as many organizations together to highlight sexual violence as a public health, human rights and social justice issue and reinforce the need for prevention efforts. The National Sexual Violence Resource Center provides the annual theme, slogan, resources and materials for the national SAAM campaign. (paraphrased from Wikipedia)

            Links:

            • Sexual Assault Awareness Month
            • Moxie
            • Sexual Violence in the Media: An Exploration of Traditional Print Media Reporting in the United States, 2014–2017
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              If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

              Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

              We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

              24 min
            • Survivor Story - Nicole's Journey of Escaping, Returning, Forgiveness and Surviving

              Nicole Railsback - Co-Owner and Operator of Railsback Indoor Sports Expo - The RISE in Southwest Michigan, shares her story of abuse, escape, a return to the person who abused her, ultimately escaping and the damage her return caused... coupled with forgiveness, love and survival.

              • The RISE
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                If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

                Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

                We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

                40 min

              About I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship

              From the publisher's feed

              A podcast about surviving domestic and sexual violence. Domestic and Sexual Abuse Services explore the hope in what can seem like a hopeless situation. Our goal with “I’m Not in an Abusive Relationship” is to bring you stories of hope to inspire, and conversations with experts to offer insight and advice. The inspiration for the show and the name of the podcast came from a survivor. In her story, she referenced the fact that she didn’t see herself in an abusive relationship. She didn’t think it was “that bad.” Our hope is that anyone in that situation can hear their story in these episodes, find hope and find help. Hosted by Claudia Pahls and Dan Moyle.

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