I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship

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  • How to Help and Support DASAS

    Bill Furr, President of the Board of Directors at DASAS and chair of the facilities committee, joins Dan on this episode to discuss how listeners can help support Domestic And Sexual Abuse Services (DASAS).

    From giving money to donating supplies to our emergency shelter, you can help us support survivors in many ways.

    • DASAS Wish List
    • Donate to DASAS
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      If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

      Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

      We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

      40 min
    • 2 Years, 100 Episodes - What Have We Learned from Our Podcast

      After two years and 100 episodes, some of the people behind I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship gather to discuss where we started, what expectations we had and where are now.

      As of this release, our little podcast produced in Southwest Michigan for our 3 counties we support has been downloaded (or streamed) nearly 80,000 times. We average 792 downloads/plays per episode (the industry average is 140 per episode). We reach every state in the U.S. plus another 103 countries. Our goal to spread hope and help is working.

      Listen in as Dan Moyle welcomes Claudia Pahls (host), Ned Haylett (former President), Rose Ludwick (former Executive Director), Krista DeBoer (Executive Director) and Deborah Hackworth (Director of Advocacy Services) to discuss what it takes to launch and maintain a podcast for a nonprofit.

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      If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

      Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

      We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

      37 min
    • Men and Surviving Sexual Abuse

      Survivors of sexual abuse (and domestic violence) span genders, sex, orientation and other identifiers. In other words, yes, men are victims, too. In this episode, you'll hear from a licensed counselor who helps men find hope and healing. Papillion 'Poppy' DeBoer is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor who, among other clients, specializes in helping male survivors navigate their healing.

      Poppy uses evidence-based techniques and methods, drawing primarily from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Compassion Focused Therapy.

      Resources:

      • Sexual Victimization Perpetrated by Women: Federal Data Reveal Surprising Prevalence
      • The Body Keeps the Score
      • My Body Belongs to Me (for kids)
      • A Practical Guide to Complex PTSD
      • Am I Broken (Poppy's podcast)
      • Agency of Change (Poppy's website)
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        If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

        Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

        We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

        30 min
      • Is Most Violence Against Women Committed by Strangers?

        Laura Kopacz is a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE Nurse) at ProMedica Coldwater Regional Hospital Branch County Sexual Assault Services. On this episode, Laura explores the question, "Is most violence against women committed by strangers?" Laura also explains what survivors of sexual abuse can expect when working with medical professionals trained in working with victims/survivors.

        Important note: victims of sexual assault do not pay for this service. There is no cost to you as a survivor for help.

        Links:

        • Branch County Sexual Assault Services
        • Read about Laura
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          If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

          Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

          We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

          21 min
        • How Do We Help Families Impacted by Domestic Violence? - with Dr. Barbara Howes in Cass County

          Michigan’s problem-solving courts have been extraordinarily successful in solving problems and saving lives, thanks in large part to Dr. Barbara Howes. These innovative courts reach 97 percent of our state’s population and help to make communities statewide safer and stronger. Also called treatment courts, they are successful because participants can access treatment and other support needed to address underlying issues affecting persons entering the criminal justice and abuse neglect court systems, specifically, alcohol abuse, drug abuse, mental illness, and untreated trauma.

          Unlike traditional courts, problem-solving courts are not adversarial and take a team approach that brings community stakeholders together to reach a “win-win” outcome that prevents further offenses and saves local governments the cost of incarceration. The Cass County Courts have been on the forefront of the problem-solving/treatment court movement and have obtained numerous federal and state grants to provide much-needed services to our Cass County community.

          Cass County’s full continuum of problem-solving courts focuses on providing evidence-based responses that work to improve outcomes, restore families, and make our communities safer.

          Links:

          • Specialty court coordinators share success of program
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            If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

            Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

            We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

            35 min
          • Why Couple's Counseling Can Be Dangerous for Victims of Domestic Abuse

            Valentine's Day: The day "we" celebrate couples. But love isn't always pink hearts, roses and candy. Couple's counseling can help when things aren't right. But what about when you're in an abusive relationship? Can couple's counseling help?

            Listen to this conversation with DASAS therapist Elizabeth Alderson on why couple's counseling can actually be a problem if the relationship is abusive.

            Resources:

            • National Domestic Violence Hotline: Should I Go To Couples Therapy With My Abusive Partner?
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              If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

              Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

              We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

              35 min
            • Survivor Story - Sally's Abuse as a Teenager: Dating, Coercive Sex and Consent
              This is a survivor story of a teenage relationship gone wrong. Trigger warning: this conversation includes talk of coercive sex and abuse.
              We open Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month with Sally's story. What began as a happy relationship between two high schoolers became a terrifying nightmare. Behind the good looks and charming nature, the boyfriend was an abusive and manipulative monster. He terrified and abused Sally constantly. The torture that she endured consumed every aspect of her life, isolating her from friends and family, as well as impacting her health and academics.
              Links:
              * Sally on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/e_writer996/)
              * Sally's story in her own words (https://www.wattpad.com/story/207164165-the-love-of-my-life-the-monster)
              * Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (https://www.breakthecycle.org/teenDVmonth)
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              If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.
              Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here (http://eepurl.com/gtqeRb) or at our website here (https://www.dasasmi.org/podcast).
              We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/im-not-in-an-abusive-relationship/id1457515257?mt=2) or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.
              43 min
            • International Efforts to Stop Human Trafficking with Hope for Justice

              Hope for Justice exists to bring an end to modern slavery by preventing exploitation, rescuing victims, restoring lives and reforming society. On this episode, Richard Shoeberl, US Investigations Team Leader, joins Dan to explore the mission to prevent, rescue, restore and reform in the face of the global epidemic of slavery and human trafficking.

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              If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

              Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

              We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

              43 min
            • Local Efforts to Stop Human Trafficking with the Kalamazoo Area Anti-Human Trafficking Coalition

              The Kalamazoo Area Anti-Human Trafficking Coalition was formed in 2012. The group is a community member organization that comes together to raise awareness and advocate for services in the Kalamazoo area. They're a recognized regional task force under the Michigan Human Trafficking Task Force.

              Founder Sara Morley-LaCroix joins Dan Moyle in this second installment of our special series on National Slavery and Human Trafficking Prevention Month to discuss this local effort to bring awareness and prevention to an epidemic affecting so many.

              Links:

               

              • Kalamazoo Area Anti-Human Trafficking Coalition
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                If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

                Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

                We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

                35 min
              • Keeping Our Kids Safe on Social with Bark Technology and Titania Jordan

                This is the first in a 3-part special series for National Slavery and Human Trafficking Prevention Month. We kick off our series with Keeping Our Kids Safe on Social with Bark Technology and Titania Jordan.

                Titania Jordan is the CMO and Chief Parent Officer of Bark.us, an internet safety solution that helps parents and schools keep children safer across social media, text messaging, and email. In this episode, we hear what parents can do to help monitor their children's safety and help to protect them from predators using the internet to groom them for abuse.

                Resources mentioned in this episode:

                • Bark Technologies
                • Children Rescue Coalition
                • Titania's book Parenting in a Tech World: A handbook for raising kids in the digital age
                • Bark's Stone Fish short documentary
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                  If you need resources or help in any way, call our 24 hour hotline at 800-828-2023 or visit www.DASASMI.org.

                  Subscribe for a new episode each week. We publish every Wednesday morning at 8:00am. Subscribe to the weekly email newsletter here or at our website here.

                  We appreciate your help in spreading the message of hope. You can help us reach more listeners by leaving a written review on Apple Podcasts or where you listen, and by sharing on social media.

                  35 min

                About I'm Not In An Abusive Relationship

                From the publisher's feed

                A podcast about surviving domestic and sexual violence. Domestic and Sexual Abuse Services explore the hope in what can seem like a hopeless situation. Our goal with “I’m Not in an Abusive Relationship” is to bring you stories of hope to inspire, and conversations with experts to offer insight and advice. The inspiration for the show and the name of the podcast came from a survivor. In her story, she referenced the fact that she didn’t see herself in an abusive relationship. She didn’t think it was “that bad.” Our hope is that anyone in that situation can hear their story in these episodes, find hope and find help. Hosted by Claudia Pahls and Dan Moyle.

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