Every day, I hear the story:  "I thought we were just 'on pause.'  After ______, we would get back to the relationship."  That ______ can be:  friends, hobbies, education, job, sports, interests, and often -- KIDS.

That time comes (if you even get that far), only to discover that the marriage was not on pause.  It was dying.

Sometimes, people find this out when there is no pulse, the relationship strangled of life.

What happened?

The Immutable Law Of Marriage is, "there is no pause in marriage."

Connection is the life-blood of a marriage.  When you think you hit "pause," you actually began strangling off the connection.  Once connection begins to fail, the marriage begins to suffocate.

Let's talk about why you can't hit "Pause," and what to do if you already thought you hit "Pause."

Immutable Laws Of Marriage Series

#1 Marriage Is About Becoming A WE

#2 Marriage Is NOT A Vehicle for Happiness (Or Misery)

#3 We ALL Have Fears