April 16, 2024

Information Processing: Sunglasses, Early Attachment & More with Ann & Sue (233)

47 minutes

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Do you have your metaphorical sunglasses on?

Ann and Sue are back for another deep dive, this time on all things information processing. Using the concept of sunglasses as a metaphor for information distortion, they explain how our internal working models and attachment experiences shape the way we perceive and interpret information. The sunglasses represent different states of activation, with clear glasses indicating a secure state and aviator sunglasses representing a defensive, self-protective state. Sunglasses can affect our relationships – but they don’t have to stop us from building healthy connections. Follow along as we explore the importance of curiosity, self-reflection, and open-mindedness in navigating relationships.

“…you can be very responsive to the people around you and their different states, but you’re also equally responsive to your own battery, your own needs, your own wishes, your own frustrations – that matters too.” – Sue Marriott

Time Stamps for Information Processing

1:06 – Introducing the metaphor of sunglasses

6:27 – Recognizing information distortion and its impact

12:37 – Understanding positive and negative transference

18:15 – Deep dive into the meaning behind the Aviator sunglasses metaphor

23:28 – The impact of early attachment experiences

35:44 – How our stories can impact the way our nervous system responds

41:01 – Questions can feel threatening neurologically

43:49 – The crazy 8 anecdote

45:51 – Being aware of our own sunglass distortions

Information Processing Resources

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