Intelligent Intoxication

Intelligent Intoxication

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Intelligent Intoxication episodes

  • How To Shift the Sh*t In Your Head

    When you’re trying to shift your Inner Critic thoughts, you can ease into a new thought using these sentence starters:

    • "I want to want to believe that… “
  • "I'm willing to consider that… “
  • "I'm becoming someone who… “
  • "I'm looking for evidence that… “
  • "It's possible that… “

    • Pick the prompt that resonates with you and rewrite your INNER CRITIC thought.

    Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

     

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

     

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    6 min
  • How To Question Your Critic/Part 21

    We want to LISTEN to what our Inner Critic says and QUESTION what we hear. Here’s how to do this:

    Write down one of your Inner Critic thoughts and then ask these 5 QUESTIONS:

    • 1.Is it really TRUE? 
  • 2. Is this true MOST of the time? 
  • 3. Who was the FIRST person in your life to say this to you? 
  • 4. Is that person reliable, kind, and honest? 
  • 5. Is that person a good judge of your abilities? 

    • Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

     

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    10 min
  • Inner Critic Insights/Part 20

    The goal is NOT to ignore, get rid of, or silence our INNER CRITIC. Your IC is a "best friend with shitty communication skills". Beyond the chattering, we can find the INSIGHTS.

    INSIGHTS OF THE PERFECTIONIST:

    • "Here are POSSIBILITIES for what you can create..."
  • "These seemingly IMPOSSIBLE GOALS might be fun to pursue..."
  • "Let me introduce you to your FUTURE SELF... "
  • "Can we chat about your POTENTIAL?"

    • INSIGHTS OF THE SABOTEUR:

    • "You might want to consider COURSE-CORRECTING... "
  • "This isn't WORTHY of your time, energy, or attention... "
  • "You can't do it all... so, PRIORITIZE what REALLY matters.... "
  • "You've got negative emotions brewing... you're considering how to BUFFER... "

    • INSIGHTS OF THE PESSIMIST:

    • "Let me trouble-shoot what might go WRONG... "
  • "How did you create your PAST RESULTS?"
  • "What LESSONS did you learn from your MISTAKES?"
  • "What are the OBSTACLES we can solve for in advance?"
  • "How must you be willing to FAIL?"

    • INSIGHTS OF THE MARTYR:

    • "How do others practice SELF-CARE?"
  • "Who are you BEING rather than what are you DOING?"
  • "What do I need to VALIDATE for myself?"
  • "What's no longer WORKING in my own life?"
  • "What no longer SERVES me?"
  • "What might I need to RESCUE myself from?"

    • Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    6 min
  • Reacting To Your Inner Critic Benefits You/Part 19

    We believe or react to our Inner Critic chatter because it temporarily BENEFITS us to do so. Here are those benefits:

    PERFECTIONIST:

    • The excuse to procrastinate starting until you can do it "perfectly".
  • The excuse to not finish because what you're creating is "not perfect" yet.
  • Getting to feel as if you're always in control.
  • Getting to avoid uncertainty.
  • Getting to blame yourself and others for why you feel disappointment.
  • Getting tons of external approval and praise.
  • Getting to avoid your own emotions by staying really busy.

    • SABOTEUR:

    • Getting to avoid feeling negative emotions that we anticipate having to feel if we "follow through".
  • Getting to distract ourselves with the next "shiny object".
  • Using buffering as an "escape hatch" for any crappy emotion.
  • Getting to avoid failure.

    • PESSIMIST:

    • Never having her "hopes" crushed.
  • Getting to avoid "failure" or uncomfortable emotions.
  • Not being disappointed when a dream doesn't come true.
  • Getting to be right.

    • MARTYR:

    • You get to please others and gain approval.
  • You have great excuses for why you don't pursue and achieve your own goals.
  • You get attention for your good deeds by "virtue signaling".
  • You get to avoid your own problems.
  • You get to feel needed and indispensable.
  • You get credit and validation for your sacrifices.

    •  

    Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    7 min
  • Reacting To Your Inner Critic Costs You/Part 18

    If you BELIEVE or REACT to everything your INNER CRITIC says, here is what it may be costing you:

    PERFECTIONIST:

    • Not getting to do hard things, because you may tend to avoid "uncertain" outcomes or seemingly "impossible" goals.
  • Never feeling satisfied with "what is".
  • Not being able to identify and aim for what is "good enough" given the current circumstances.
  • Never getting to feel truly worthy in spite of your imperfections.
  • Feeling inferior to others who are seemingly more "perfect".

    • SABOTEUR:

    • Not making continuous progress toward a goal.
  • Losing the ability to trust ourselves to do what we say we'll do,
  • Feeling distracted and unfocused.
  • Missing out on finishing what we start.

    • PESSIMIST:

    • Failing in advance by not even trying.
  • Letting your past determine your future.
  • Denying yourself your hopes and dreams.

    • MARTYR:

    • You steal learning opportunities from others.
  • You seldom reach your own goals or achieve your own dreams.
  • You need approval to thrive.
  • You are always worried about other people’s reactions to what you’re doing.
  • You're perpetually "exhausted' and "obligated".

    •  

    Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    8 min
  • Critical Dangers/Part 17

    Your Inner Critic is trying to protect you and keep you safe. Which of these “dangers” are triggers for your Inner Critic:

    • not pleasing others or getting approval?
  • not fitting in or being accepted?
  • not getting attention?
  • conflict with others?
  • disappointing others?
  • not being loved?
  • doing things differently?
  • rejection?
  • failure?
  • being vulnerable?
  • being criticized or judged?
  • being inferior?
  • making mistakes?
  • being weak?
  • losing control?
  • looking foolish?

    •  

    Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    4 min
  • What Your Critic Says/Part 16

    Which of these Inner Critic thought prompts sound familiar?

    • "I'm not supposed to..."
  • "I can't...."
  • "I should..."
  • 'I shouldn't... "
  • "I'm not worthy/good enough because..."
  • "I'm too... "
  • "I won't be loved if..."
  • "I won't be safe if... "
  • "I won't please others if..."
  • "I won't get approval if... "
  • "I'll never succeed because... "
  • "I'll fail because... "

    • Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    5 min
  • Critical Flavors /Part 15

    There are four main types of INNER CRITICS... which one sounds MOST like yours?

    THE PERFECTIONIST...

    • is never satisfied with results
  • sets impossibly high standards
  • expects you to over-perform
  • over-controls and judges

    • THE SABOTEUR...

    • avoids commitment
  • doesn't follow through
  • tells you it's "okay to quit"
  • chases "shiny objects"
  • stops trying

    • THE MARTYR...

    • sacrifices your own needs
  • worries about what others think
  • gets overwhelmed with obligations
  • protects/rescues others
  • care-takes to avoid self-care

    • THE PESSIMIST...

    • believes change isn't possible
  • expects you to fail... again
  • won't admit wrong-doing
  • doesn't take responsibility or say "sorry"
  • blames others or circumstances
  • acts like a victim

    • (Based on Kate Swobota’s “Fear Patterns”. )

    Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    10 min
  • Trigger Me This/Part 14

    Our INNER CRITICS get triggered. I invite you to consider these questions in an attempt to clarify your triggers. Does your INNER CRITIC get triggered:

    • in certain situations:
      • social events?
  • work functions or meetings?
  • conversations?
  • family gatherings?
  • on social media?
  • around certain people:
    • kids?
  • spouses?
  • extended family?
  • bosses or colleagues?
  • friends?
  • strangers?
  • with certain topics:
    • education?
  • body image?
  • marital status?
  • parenting?
  • children?
  • work experience?
  • social standing?
  • money?
  • family background?

    • Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    8 min
  • Your Critic’s Focus/Part 13

    When your INNER CRITIC blames you, compares you to the others, judges you, finds fault with your every move, or shows you where you're inferior, it is because your INNER CRITIC is striving to shine a light on your:

    • character
  • past mistakes
  • behavior
  • weaknesses

    • Your INNER CRITIC is desperate to keep you safe by helping you avoid:

    • change
  • uncertainty
  • rejection
  • failure

    • What does your INNER CRITIC say to you about your:

    • character?
  • mistakes?
  • behavior?
  • weaknesses?

    • Here are my favorite Inner Critic resources:

    The Courage Habit: How to Accept Your Fears, Release the Past, and Live Your Courageous Life by Kate Swobota. 

    “The Courage Habit” podcast.

    Dethroning Your Inner Critic: The Four-Step Journey From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment by Joanna Kleinman. 

    “Dethroning Your Inner Critic” podcast. 

    Stay tuned… I’m creating an intoxicating experience and course which will be coming your way later this fall. Prepared to be instigated, disrupted, and intoxicated with purpose, passion, and possibility. 

    My email subscribers will be given first priority when the course opens. I invite you to subscribe here:

    www.terribradway.com/newsletter

    I invite you to click on the link below to book your complimentary happy hour call:

    www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri

     

    When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 

     

    If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me.

    9 min

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Get ready to craft a top shelf life with new episodes every Wednesday. Join your host, Terri Bradway, for season two of the Intelligent Intoxication podcast.