Is your adult child blaming you for their trauma — and you're left wondering if it's really your fault? This episode is going to help you finally get clarity.

Today we're breaking down why some adult children use "trauma blame" to avoid accountability, the red flags that show it's not actually about you, and how to respond in a healthy, grounded way without getting pulled into guilt, shame, or manipulation.

And before we begin, here's the truth: Trauma is not one-size-fits-all. It can be a big wound or a thousand small hurts. I'm not dismissing your child's pain — but you also don't have to carry guilt that doesn't belong to you. Every family story is different, and this video will help you understand yours with compassion and honesty.

⭐ What You'll Learn in This Video

• How to recognize when "trauma blame" is actually avoidance • Why vague accusations are a major red flag • How adult children sometimes weaponize trauma language • When it crosses into manipulation • The difference between influence and responsibility • Scripts to respond without escalating the conflict • How to protect your emotional health while staying grounded in truth

If you're tired of feeling like everything is your fault… this will bring clarity and peace.

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