It's Giving - Podcast

Woooaooooeeeee Child!  This episode might be the one y’all cancel the show for!  They say never talk about religion or sex and we talked abut that and MORE!!

This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have two people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It! 

Get ready to be uncomfortable... I know I was, but if you can get passed HOW he says It, Dr William makes a lot of strong points!

Let us know in the comments,  do you agree with this?

It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

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0:00 - intro 
2:08 - what are some qualities that make women more masculine outside of money 
4:06 - don’t women that are working still deserving of masculine men? 
5:20 - how do you make that switch from feminine/masculine on the day to day? 
6:40 - why are you masculine? Be aware! 
7:55 - how do you create a space that allows you to be that way? 
9:45 - what does your environment say about you? 
10:24 - a man will treat you how you treat yourself 
12:00 - how do men get unlazy when dating if a female mentions paying bills from the jump 
14:50 - stop asking for stuff 
15:30 - ladies, you need to have your own! 
16:10 - sick and tired of these entitled women doing this… 
17:43 - why is your not already done? 
18:15 - women want to live a certain way but aren’t in alignment with what they’re asking for 
20:20 - i know there are things that make It harder for people to be successful 
21:25 - change is hard 
24:25 - people will calm you a pick me because…
26:33 - we will always regulate! 
28:27 - a lot of people have to resolve from trauma
28:53-  it’s a self esteem and self worth issue 
29:25 - why should a man WANT to do these things for you! 
30:22 - 2/3 people have low self esteem 
32:50 - 34:38 ladies you have to prioritize yourself 
35:25 - ladies you have to also get lady like women around you! 
40:18 - if a woman submits to the wrong man 
41:40 -  i think It only takes a man 6 months to know if he wants to propose to a woman or not 
45:25 - i can’t stand someone that plays victim!
46:10 -  what is your response to people that try to gaslight you 
47:44 - do women truly want men to lead? 
49:30 - femininity does not keep track, they live in the now! 
51:28 - men want their women to be logical and It goes against the way we are wired 
54:12 - when you finally look in the mirror and don’t like what you see 
54:50 - a lot of women want a great man but don’t want to control their emotions 
55:28 - especially beautiful women, they are lazy 
56:23 - a lot of men think they want a feminine woman, but really don’t 
57:08 - the way to get any woman to come out of the emotion is to meet her… (role play)
1:00:50 - men a lot of the times you feel like there is a lack in grace is because you’re lacking THIS! 

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

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0:00 - Intro

2:27 - what are ways of finding the right wife? 

4:08 - no filler energy 

4:55 - what about the men that say they will cut everyone off but doesn’t 

5:40 - a lot of women choose delusion 

6:28 - how do you spoil your man? 

7:15 - observe him!! 

8:20 - why did you start doing relationship videos 

10:21 - what habits or mindset shifts enhance femininity 

11:55 - ladies you should be able to take care of yourself! 

13:16 - is femininity in a look or in her mind? 

14:00 - if a man wants to go 50/50 does that mean that he’s not a real provider 

15:45 - analogy - starving 

17:35 - is It masculine to chase a man 

18:57 - how does a woman position herself to be caught 

20:45 - where do you go to meet a high value masculine man 

22:45 - males fight for female attention in the wild 

23:54 - if a man wants to lead what should he do first? 

25:00 - high value, earning men will become the focus 

26:00 - why do broke men have the most relationship advice? 

27:30 - are independent women making It harder to be providers or are men not stepping up 

29:50 - when I’m a mother my husband comes first! 

30:42 - women that take better care of their friends than their man! 

31:45 - you’re married with a child 

33:39 - you’ll change your mind when you have children 

36:00 - what’s your perspective on men that have wandering eyes 

39:44 - femininity leans on masculinity 

40:22 - whats more important effort or money 

41:44 - when you are dating a man with money, you need to know this! 

43:19 - if your ex still follows you can you still be friends 

46:00 - my Girls aren’t even friends with my man 

47:20 - be in a bikini then put my clothes back on 

49:50 - Chris married 9 years weighs in 

50:45 - don’t EVER come out in pjs in front of my man 

51:55 - how do you hug my man?!  Little things build comfortability 

53:35 - back to who would you choose 

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This is an absolute throwback!!  The episode we never launched that started the solo episodes!!  just Wow, hidden files!  This is how It all started!  Reddit articles and questions!  Let us know what it’s giving in the comments

Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

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1:00 am i the a hole that i don’t want to help my husband 

3:30 - first thing i think of is another woman 

4:25 - you’re asking the wrong person, bc i desire to be taken care of 

5:29 am i the a-hole for laughing at bf when he was angry 

11:00 - am i the a-hole for snapping at my wife? 

13:30 it’s giving abandonment - we

14:50 i could never imagine dating a 25 year old 

17:10 - can i revived princess treatment without giving It up at all 19:56 - what is the difference between a woman who wants to be a wife vs someone who wants to be married 

22:08 - difference between nice guy and good man 

23:50 - why are some men insecure around women that are about their budiness 

25:50 - what are the top life lessons you’ve learned on your journey 

27:00 walk in expectation 

27:49 - biblically speaking, if you think of how god took clay…

29:43 - have integrity! With self! 

31:05 - have compassion 

31:35 - am i the whole for taking my girls wedding plans 

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Welcome to a much more personal episode, getting to know our host  @SarahFontenot  

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - intro
6:28 - one thing about me… FRUGAL 
9:06 - why haven’t you called your sister? 
10:40 - what do you think It means when a man spends more time with his sister than you? 
12:48 - one year for my birthday dinner - lavender mimosas 
15:05 - can we have tips on the vetting process when It comes to feminine women!
16:32 - is there ever a time you go back and forth in the pursuit?
19:06 - share your personal dating experience now 
22:20 - i only like cooking if i like you 
23:30 - clip of our book : https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook 
27:40 - how can a woman go from aggressive to assertive? 
29:20 - why do you feel how you feel? 
31:52 - what’s the makeup regiment 
46:48 - what do you do for fun 
47:55 - was podcasting you always wanted to do? 
51:00 - my mentor told me to o do a podcast by myself 
53:23 - It doesn’t matter what level you’re at 
55:15 - would you ever climb Mount Everest // sky diving 
57:50 - the lesson of skydiving 
1:01:28 - at what age will you not have kids passed 
1:02:19 - when will you settle down? 
1:03 - shout out

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This episode dives DEEP into how childhood trauma can completely affect your life in a subconscious way!  Some of us can't help but continue to attract that same toxic partner, stay in that job we hate, gossip with friends, etc... WHY?!  It all stems back to our childhood!

AND, Some men are just stringing you along sis!  He doesn't need 4 years to know if you're his wife!

Get ready to be uncomfortable... This one is a DUZY!!

Let us know in the comments!!!

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The way this conversation went SO FAST!!!  I mean, this was literally two women having a conversation while the cameras were rolling and I loved every minute of It!  

When you are struggling to be in a relationship, want to learn how to be a better support system, or just want to hear some differences in the way people love, etc.  THIS episode is for you!!  Not ONE disappointing moment!

Let us know what its giving in the comments!

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

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0:00 - Intro

5:41 - 12:46  how do I get a soft life?  How do you be soft!

8:30 you’ve got to be feminine to be soft 

10:11 - oversharing is a sign of trauma response

10:43 - feminine energy doesn’t have something to prove! 

13:00 - what does It mean to move the goal post?

17:00 - isn’t It better to cry in a rolls Royce than a kia?

18:42 - 28:12  how important are the hard conversations?

20:20 - what Aneesa experienced in marriage 

22:00 - that’s two unhealed people 

25:33 - you have to assert your boundaries 

27:18 - certain things should just never happen!

28:12 - Aneesa new experience working through things

30:15 - people do weird stuff when they are depressed

31:40 - wicked movie (Aneesa’s thoughts)

36:25 - he’s married, long distance and is my spouse slipping away?

40:35 can you date a man in the military

41:02 - 49:11 does premature sex equate to premature breakups when looking for a wife

43:49 - should people try the milk before buying the cow?

46:30 Aneesa on celibacy

47:37 - what’s most important is making It MEAN something!

49:11 - Aneesa saying why she’s abstinence

51:00 - a man saying he wants to fix things but he’s not reconciling means what?

52:55 - 1:07:41 what are some things you won’t put up with from a high value man

54:33 - high value 

54:54 - high value vs high earning

56:56 why pick the 100K men when I can pick 1M

57:40 - The dating pool

59:20 - am I too high functioning

1:00:00 - why are women taking advantage of good men

1:00:55 - I don’t think modern women take advantage of nice men

1:02:34 - how does low self esteem show up in how we dating?

1:04:40 I’m surrendered to God that ill allow  life with no attachment to how It SHOULD be…

1:08:53 - video *you think you’re the boss**

Ray J and his ex

Women put themselves in prisons when they don’t move like they need their man

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This episode dives DEEP into how childhood trauma can completely affect your life in a subconscious way!  Some of us can't help but continue to attract that same toxic partner, stay in that job we hate, gossip with friends, etc... WHY?!  It all stems back to our childhood!

Get ready to be uncomfortable... but hear very REAL, RAW, dynamic conversation!

Let us know in the comments,  do you think childhood trauma affects your adult decisions?

It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!
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Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

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