Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

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Intro - 0:00
3:40 - how long is too long to wait on someone for marriage 
4:35 - how long are you looking for changed behavior
7:00 - at what age will you decide you’re not having children 
9:08 - men live long r when they have wives 
10:18 - if you’re seeing someone and you like them, but you’re still in the talking stages is it wrong or not wrong to have sex with someone else?
11:57 - when i choose the man I’ll sleep with, he’s already sleeping with other women? 
14:17 - I’m having a mental confliction 
15:40 - how do you quantify that 
17:40 - hyper sexuality is a form of ADHD
20:19 - intimacy definition.  
21:00 - soul sister goddess tribe  gets a different version 
21:45 - you can’t be all of who you are all the time, out 
23:46 - if an ex has a heavy loss in family, do you reach out to
25:15 - men will find any reason to reach out to you 
26:13 - why do people rush for marriage within a year 
28:00 - Christian standpoint on dating 
31:00 - i have never experienced intimate time that would make me overlook bad behavior 
32:15 - broke men are better in bed 
33:44 - if you’re young stop rushing 
35:33 - do you think millennial women are struggling bc they are independent? 
37:52 - independent is being interchanged with… i don’t need no man 
40:00 - a lot of women don’t know how to be feminine 
41:05 - LADIES, if you meet a man, DO NOT DO THIS…!
42:12 - married women are not independent women 
43:00 - the definition of independent is not bad…
44:00 - your bride price is high 
45:25 - ladies you have to take care of yourself and not act like It 
46:10 - what is the difference between independence and interdependence? 
47:11 - women are expected to forgive and give Grace to men, but it doesn’t work the other way around, why?
48:10 - do you buy into the trend of broke men don’t deserve P***y
51:17 - should a man drive to you, pick you up, meet half way or meet you there on first date 
53:22 - if my woman got done up for me but posted It on socials before, what does that mean? 
56:25 - there’s a level of sexy you shouldn’t post on socials
57:55 - where do you think the line of delusion starts - the 4 needs 
1:03:50 - how can i love my woman if she doesn’t reciprocate? 

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You need to watch this video if you are ready to experience love again, manifest your dream partner, be a boss and a soft girl at the same time!!  So many gems!  We know you’ll love this one as much as we did!

In this video we talk all the things, from being in your soft girl era, finding out how to love yourself, self awareness and so much more!

Guest: Turquoise Barnet
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0:00 - Intro
2:30 - What does this season mean for you 
3:08 - in the melanated community, how do you get around where people will guilt you for handling living in yourself 
4:07 - how do you balance being a boss babe and a wife 
6:01 - men don’t realize how heavy It is to be a feminine woman 
7:00 - do you even know what you want in a partner 
7:30 - do you believe in a 50/50 household 
8:15 - the greatest thing we have in life are options and choices 
9:25 - there are a lot of men that want their wives to be Susi homemaker and at the same time being in the workforce…
9:45 - if you don’t quit working we will not win! 
10:30 - being raised by militant. Father looked like this…
11:58 - no one taught me what it means to be a feminine woman… Is it cooking? Is it cleaning? There is no book…
13:15 - when i got It It was scary, bc i had never seen or experienced It before! 
13:30 - often times we self sabotage what we don’t understand
15:23 - you stand on business and own who you are! 
15:58 - we hear a lot about masculine and feminine but we all have both! 
18:38 - my dad always made me feel safe to be bold 
20:26 - what are some of the intangibles that solidified your marriage? 
22:49 - do you ever feel overwhelmed? 
23:20 - is there ever a time that you just relax? 
25:30 - i was getting no sleep! But i operate best at…
26:35 - now sometimes i just need a ME day! 
28:35 - 38:40 there’s nothing worse than mustering up energy when you don’t have It 
30:00 - when people talk about marriage - It took a year to change my name 
31:30 - marriage is a lot more than a piece of paper 
32:00 - the kind of wife i want to be i know parts of me have to die
33:25 - what does the level of leadership look like you need in your partner 
36:18 a lot of men THINK they are in their masculine but are heavily masculine 
36:54 - just because you have the title of man doesn’t make you qualified to lead! 
38:40-  we come from two totally different backgrounds 

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers...

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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What an incredible episode!  Not only because It was filled with so many gems, but having a chance to have our hosts mother on the show was AMAZING!!

Having almost 70 years of life and decades of marriage this is definitely an episode you do NOT want to miss!!

Tune in to this whole episode if you feel like there are women willing to cut corners, use their bodies, and other financial resources to secure their men…. And as Mrs. Fontenot said, there’s nothing new under the sun… It comes down to what you’re exposed to!

Let us know what it’s giving in the comments

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0:00 - Intro
3:06 - why are you here and dad is not 
4:30 - what’s one piece of advice you would give to someone who wants to get to know her 
4:59 - what’s the most trouble Sarah got into when she was younger 
7:14 - i don’t come from gentle parenting - i was afraid to disappoint you 
8:13 - you instilled a healthy level of fear 
9:24 - what was the most important lesson your children needed to inherit? Critical thinking 
13:52 - what did mom look for in a man back in her day 
15:23 - did you and dad fight? 
16:15 - why do you have a black eye? 
17:40 - there’s such a difference in the generation 
20:00 - there were cultural differences 
21:38 - i believe there are still good women 
22:10 - i think the internet has changed things 
23:04 - no one liked me growing up but im grateful i didn’t have a baby 
24:21 - do you think im going to be married? 
25:52 - one fear around never having children… 
28:03 - remember when you started that scholarship with young women 
28:59 - who chose my name and why? 
30:53 - what was my first word 
31:10 - describe one time that Sarah ran up your blood pressure
31:35 - you’re a completely different grandma than mother 
33:40 - a teacher was telling me how to parent 
36:02 - you may see sweet, but I am a warrior and i come from warriors 
38:05 - how does your teaching reflect in Sarah? 
41:36 - what type of man would you like to see your daughter marry? 
42:15 - what is your favorite thing that Sarah did for you?

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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Alpha Man!!  What do you really want? In this episode we get to hear insights from one of our early 2000’s R&B Staples @Lyfe Jennings!!   He gives us all sides of the pros and cons of marriage in this modern day, and whether he believes marriage is on the table or not! Check this episode out and find out more with Sarah and Lyfe! 

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, the Alpha male mind, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!! 

You guys asked, so here are the answers! let us know what its giving in the comments!

Guest: Lyfe Jennings
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Author: Neville Goddard

0:00 - Intro
2:00 what is this season called?
3:30 - how did you get into singing?
4:25 - who do you look up to? 
7:00 - how many years were you in prison and did you miss growing up 
7:45 - how has that affected your dating experience 
8:50 - how do you know who wants you for you vs the money? 
9:30 - i keep a severance pay! 
10:25 - we talk a lot about modern women 
12:24 - do you think you should provide while dating or should It be reserved for a relationship 
13:55 - why do men overcompensate with things? 
14:57 - a lot of men are just infatuated with looks 
15:20 - being attractive is apart of being high value for a man 
16:40 - my sister always said you don’t like attractive men 
18:58 - i hate how visual i am! 
19:24 - masculine wants a visiual aesthetic 
23:10 - consciousness is sexy to me! 
23:53 - i like a woman who doesn’t talk to much 
Can you be comfortable in the quiet 
25:45 - i don’t like girls with… 
27:00 - this is how women can tell how much money a man makes… 
28:55 - if you’re dripped down you’re probably Broke for real 
30:00 - for my ladies, one of the most attractive things to a man is… 
We don’t feel safe inside of flow…
31:46 - you think we want things that we don’t - BBL? 
Why do we as women think that most black men want BBLS? 
33:28  - would you marry a woman with a bbl? 
34:20 - who is marriage for? 
35:20 - why do you think the divorce rate is so high? 
36:20 - people don’t know how important marriage is…
37:50 why do women want marriage 
38:38 - if a man told you i can be everything you need but marriage is off the table? 
41:28 - your value increases or decreases 
42:50 - we can agree to disagree 
45:00 - life is an echo 
46:20 - bro, what is your angle 
48:30 - do you want more children? 
50:00 - would you ever do gospel 
51:49 - song could have been worse - https://open.spotify.com/track/1MT5uznE9kQWGDNesknp45
53:17 - when ever something good happens i trace It backwards 
54:56 - you have new music coming out!  These kids will never know real music 
56:50 back then you needed talent now you just need a hot beat - we have to start calling what It is what It is 
57:40 - how you dress is in colusion with what you do 
1:03:20 - IG vs IG 
Courthouse or breakup 
1:10:27 date and on the phone, yay or nay!

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - Intro
2:05 - why is It that women pray for something then get It and treat It like trash? 
4:40 - what does It mean to treat you bad? 
6:25 - it’s always a ME thing! 
7:03 - should a woman take a man’s last name 
8:55 - when a woman marries a man she’s leaving her family behind 
11:15 - tips on how to carry a conversation with a man! 
14:20 - what do you want to talk about with your man? 
15:35 - now if we are in in person…
16:40 - be INTERESTED not interesting
18:38 - masculine men want to feel needed! 
19:25 - men love when you stroke their ego
20:00 - make people feel SEEN! 
20:40 - master the art of manipulation 
21:30 - why do women raise the very men they don’t want? 
22:25 - women should not raise boys by themselves 
24:00 - women are raising women in their sons 
24:28 - ladies need to stop getting pregnant by losers that don’t support a child 
25:05 - why are you laying down with men you don’t like 
27:10 - ladies don’t squander your legacy 
29:30 - will you be a victim or a victor of your circumstances 
30:30 - do you feel like it’s okay to date someone that comes from a single mom? 
33:20 - as a single parent It does disqualify you from certain things 
36:15 - when a woman has a child and single you have to bring even more value 
38:30 - a pretty face will catch them but not keep them 
39:05 - you should never give a man more than one time to say he doesn’t want you 
40:40 - we have to stop allowing our desires of an outcome outweigh the reality of what It is! 
41:10 - if you find yourself saying… he wasn’t trying to hurt you… you have to ask yourself this? 
42:27 - how do you deal with people that don’t want you to be high value? 
46:50 - i met mean girls in Atlanta 
49:40 - I’m okay with vulnerable around me, i can’t let weak 
51:18 - is being a high value individual for being picky or is It valid? 
53:17 - is It fair to expect your partner to be high value if you’re not 
54:47 - high value is in you… 
55:12 - do you think high value are born or can learn It? 
*** 56:44 link to secure attachment styles ***
56:55 - if you come from trauma it’s okay are you intentional about It growth?! 
59:19 - reaction videos
How do you feel about the phone being facedown 
1:01:05 - Kenny’s male p

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - Intro 
3:09 - what are some boundaries a man should have in a relationship? 
5:04 - should a man want to provide for a woman he just met and is dating? 
7:30 - there are certain things that need to be reserved and exclusive 
8:14 - when I’m in a relationship i attract men that want to provide for me 
9:00 - share a 50/50 love - over a decade my experience has been so different 
11:20 - not every man is masculine by nature  
12:00 - I have a friend that hates the idea of “high value”
13:10 - how do you help someone want to be high value 
15:20 - as a person that is on the healing journey i can’t function in the same disfunction 
16:40 - there’s power in rest 
18:19 - how do you deal with a partner that has trust issues? 
19:50 - we GIVE birth but we can’t… 
21:25 - you’ve got to learn to be emotionally regulated 
22:45 - there are some men that need the toxicity 
24:15 - I’ve gotten to q place where I’ll say okay 
25:00 - when should an unmarried wife start dating 
27:00 - if a man proposes after 2 months what would you say? 
29:08 - no one is a bad person some people are just weak! 
30:38 - only ONE of those are tangible 
31:15 - people see things through their experiences and perceptions and that’s okay 
33:26 - most people live in their experiences of course you wouldn’t like us 
34:58 - why do men get so sensitive about when women say they want a man with money? People are getting delusional 
38:00 - most people don’t want a solution they want to complain 
41:53 - people need to stop being delusional - people start dying after 30 
44:34 - why are women so jaded now a days - it’s a combination 
47:07 - Why do women actively lie to themselves 
48:45 - would you date someone shorter than you? 
52:25 - what is the easiest way to overcome trauma 
53:15 - It was the I’m sorry list that changed my list 
1:01:00 - what are the top 3 relationship killers? 
1:04:00 - why is It that we can operate at work but not in the home? 
1:06:25 - why do women want to work for real? 
1:07:42 - most people are so caught up in the things that they forget to be passionate and loving

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Wow!!  Sometimes it's just nice to sit and work through some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

You guys asked, so here are her answers

Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
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0:00 - intro 
3:24 - should your wife have the last say so in the household 
5:57 - do black women feel regret when black men date outside of their race 
6:59 - a lot of white women are trained to be wives 
8:07 - i need someone that’s had my experience - cultural differences 
9:25 - i love a black king - a lot of black men have a chip on their shoulder 
10:38 - how do you feel about white families adopting black children 
12:50 - both my parents are black
13:07 - black is an action and not a race - you don’t act like It 
15:00 - wow you speak really well for… 
15:46 - Kenny what do you think? 
17:45 - my dad is prejudice 
19:39 - why should a man get married when women leave so easily 
22:00 - most people break up a year later for what they saw in the first week 
23:07 - should you and your partner get tested before sex 
 23:36 - how to be a high value gem woman 
25:04 - how do you correct a man in your femininity 
26:48 -  what is one thing you’re willing to compromise in a relationship 
28:36 - if you don’t want a 50/50 man what should you do? 
30:55 - i don’t need a man to pay my bills but when im in a relationship he does 
32:28 - why are relationships so adversarial? 
36:55 - everyone successful has narcissistic traits 
39:05 - outside of infidelity and physical abuse is there any reason to divorce your wife?
40:33 - marriage licenses weren’t created until… 
42:33 - why do women equate success to being masculine?
46:08 - i don’t want to ask anyone for help 
47:00 - how do i get over an ex? 
49:45 - if i finally let you go, I'm gone 
Videos:
52:00 - why should a man get married? 
https://youtube.com/shorts/QQkRmfLopxI?si=hT_Jx2pID9BLm-cp
1:01:45 - there was a woman that agreed to a prenup and then didn’t want to sign it and he didn’t show 
1:02: 40 - what is the definition of love? 
1:05:09 - i would never date a black woman 
https://youtube.com/shorts/saF3ZjI8R6U?si=qdpIqjV5I4Jda8MF

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