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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! episodes
- How to talk to your kids about breasts -- Episode 87
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to talk to your kids about breasts.
Puberty book recommendations - all are here. https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/sex-education-books/sex-ed-books-for-kids/
The Boys' Body Book
Celebrate Your Body
Will Puberty Last My Whole Life?
The Every Body BookMy new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
8 min - Internet safety with guest Lisa Honold from the Center for Online Safety -- Episode 86
In this episode, Amy and Lisa Honold from the Center for Online Safety take questions related to keeping your kids safe online.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
49 min - How to talk to your kids about cheating -- Episode 85
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to talk to your kids about cheating.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
6 min - Kissing 6 year olds and consent for childhood games — Episode 84
In this episode, Amy talks to a mom who asks what to do when her 6 year old daughter kisses another kid at school. Also Amy discusses consent around childhood games like tag.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
23 min - REPLAY Little Gal Finds the Shower Wand and Teens Having Sex at Home — Episode 83
In this episode Amy and guest star, Nikki Knepper, give advice to a mom who wants to know what to do about the fact that her 4-year-old daughter has found the shower wand. They also talk about teens having sex at home and talking to young teens about porn.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
47 min - REPLAY All About Boys! (Parents of Girls Should Listen Too!) — Episode 82
In this episode, Amy gives advice to parents of boys about all kinds of boy issues. Great for parents of girls too!
Use BARK for monitoring and filtering.
https://www.bark.us/?ref=ZSHKPPS&rt=affiliate
Outside the US?
Qustodio or Circle should work for you!https://www.qustodio.com/en/
https://meetcircle.com/?sscid=61k6_4wmyl&utm_source=shareasale&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2734183
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
32 min - REPLAY Long Distance Young Love and Self Stimulating Kid -- Episode 81
In this episode a mom wonders if sending her 15-year-old to meet his long distance love is a good idea. Also, a mom asks how to talk to her daughter about her self stimulation behavior.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
19 min - How to Tell Another Parent Their Kid Saw Porn at Your House -- Episode 80
In this episode, Amy gives you a script to tell another parent their kid saw porn at your house
Use BARK for monitoring and filtering. https://www.bark.us/?ref=ZSHKPPS&rt=affiliate Outside the US? Qustodio or Circle should work for you! https://www.qustodio.com/en/ https://meetcircle.com/?sscid=61k6_4wmyl&utm_source=shareasale&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2734183
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
9 min - 14 YO gets around parental controls; talking about shaving vulvas; and why start the convos with p-in-v sex — Episode 79
In this episode, Amy talks to a mom who is concerned that her 14-year-old son is porn addicted. She also gives some tips about how to talk about shaving pubic hair, and why to start with p-in-v sex discussions for young kids.
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
25 min - How to Talk about Getting Caught in the Act! – Episode 78
In this episode, Amy gives parents a script to talk to kids when they get caught in the act.
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform-ebook/dp/B08BZWXK9J/ref=monarch_sidesheet
My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It
The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you be your kid's go-to person for the sex talks.
Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.
Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!
Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com
Other resources
- Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
- RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
- Birds & Bees & Kids Website
- BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
- Circle – Monitoring and filtering (international)
Facebook
Instagram
5 min
About Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
From the publisher's feed
Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place.
Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya.
I'm Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.
Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.
When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks, what's age-appropriate, and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!
When it comes to communicating about all things related to sexuality, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.
To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it's a stupid one), call 206-926-1522.*
I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.
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+ BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com
*In middle school, they talk about everything, so it's better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real.
Do you remember middle school? Wouldn't it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?
**Not a thing.
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