Resilience and resistance impact the development of discipline in powerful ways. Resilience requires us to face emotions openly, which strengthens our ability to handle stress and adapt to challenges. However, when we resist or suppress emotions, we prevent resilience from fully forming, which in turn hinders discipline. This is because discipline relies on emotional stability—being able to stay focused, committed, and consistent even when we face discomfort. Resistance disrupts this stability, causing us to react impulsively instead of with intention. By processing emotions rather than resisting them, we build both resilience and the steady foundation that discipline requires, enabling us to act with purpose rather than being driven by unprocessed feelings.   Resilience and resistance interact in complex ways when it comes to handling emotions. Resilience involves the ability to face and adapt to emotional challenges, building strength and flexibility over time. In contrast, resistance is the act of suppressing or avoiding emotions, which often makes them more intense and harder to manage. When we resist emotions, we block the growth of resilience, as unaddressed feelings can overwhelm us and disrupt our stability. Resilience and resistance impact the development of discipline in powerful ways. Resilience requires us to face emotions openly, which strengthens our ability to handle stress and adapt to challenges. However, when we resist or suppress emotions, we prevent resilience from fully forming, which in turn hinders discipline. This is because discipline relies on emotional stability—being able to stay focused, committed, and consistent even when we face discomfort. Resistance disrupts this stability, causing us to react impulsively instead of with intention. By processing emotions rather than resisting them, we build both resilience and the steady foundation that discipline requires, enabling us to act with purpose rather than being driven by unprocessed feelings.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  @coachkate1  Mental Health Coach      https://missionmedus.com

Handling pressure is a skill that can be developed over time. By understanding why we feel overwhelmed, identifying unhelpful behaviors, and implementing small, consistent changes, we can build resilience to navigate life’s challenges more effectively. Remember, handling pressure doesn’t mean eliminating stress altogether—it means learning to respond to it in ways that allow us to grow, adapt, and thrive.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  @coachkate1  Mental Health Coach

Have you ever found yourself reacting in ways you don’t fully understand, like shutting down emotionally, avoiding difficult conversations, or feeling the need to constantly stay “on guard”? These responses often stem from past experiences that leave an impact we may not even realize. In this episode, I dive deep into the coping mechanisms we develop after trauma, and how these patterns are not just reactions—they’re survival tools that shaped how we view the world. These responses, like avoidance, hyper-independence, or people-pleasing, were once protective but can hold us back if they become automatic.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

At the core of every boundary is self-respect. When we set boundaries, we’re reinforcing the belief that our time, energy, and emotions are valuable. At the core of every boundary is a strong connection to our values. Our values are the foundation that keeps us grounded, while boundaries create the structure that protects what we hold most important. Without boundaries, it’s easy for others’ actions, opinions, or demands to push us off balance, leaving us feeling drained and disconnected. Setting boundaries helps us stay grounded in our values, ensuring that the relationships we invest in reflect our core beliefs. By doing so, we protect our emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being, allowing us to give to others from a place of abundance rather than burnout. One of the biggest challenges to setting and maintaining boundaries is our own mindset. Often, fears such as rejection, people-pleasing, or the need for approval prevent us from standing firm. When we let our insecurities dictate our actions, we end up compromising our values and feeling disconnected from our true selves. Over time, this can lead to frustration, resentment, and emotional exhaustion. The truth is, by not setting clear boundaries, we limit our potential and give away our power to external forces, leaving us feeling unfulfilled.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

Being a strong, confident woman means owning your power, voice, and choices. You don’t let others define your path or settle for less than what you deserve. When life offers you breadcrumbs, you don’t accept them. You’re here for more than the bare minimum—you know your worth and aren’t afraid to walk away from anything or anyone who doesn’t meet your standards. This isn’t about being unapproachable or tough—it’s about standing firm in your value and knowing you don’t need validation from others to feel fulfilled. You already carry that strength within you. You respect the balance of the masculine and feminine, knowing that both energies have their own power. You honor a man’s strength without compromising your own. True strength is found in balancing fearlessness with compassion, power with grace. You embrace your femininity while holding space for your vulnerability. A powerful woman stands secure in her worth, leads with love, and holds firm to her boundaries, knowing that resilience comes from within.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

The times when you’re backed into a corner, forced to make a decision: Do you stand your ground, tap into your perseverance, grit, and adaptability? Or do you let fear and panic take over and run with it? Life doesn’t come with easy answers, but one thing that’s certain is that our character is revealed in the hardest of times. Whether it's a breakup, a personal loss, or facing two of the biggest hurricanes to hit Florida—I understand what that feels like. During those moments, you’re thrown into uncertainty, and you quickly realize that you need to learn how to navigate it. It’s not about avoiding the storm or pretending it isn’t happening. It’s about finding a way to remain calm inside, even when everything around you is chaotic. Because when your back is against the wall, you have two choices: Let fear paralyze you, or allow these moments to reveal just how strong you truly are. This is where perseverance and grit come into play. Perseverance isn’t about simply holding on; it’s actively choosing to stay focused and driven, even when everything feels like it’s pushing against you. It’s about grit—digging deep and finding that part of you that says, "I will not be broken by this." But what exactly is grit, and how does it differ from confidence? Confidence is the belief that you can do something—it’s that feeling that tells you, “Yes, I’ve got this. I have the skills, the experience, and the ability to handle this.” But grit, on the other hand, is what keeps you going when confidence starts to fade. It’s about staying committed to a goal even when the process gets hard, even when you don’t feel confident at all. Confidence helps you begin, but grit is what keeps you in the game when things get tough.   Phenyx Fit Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

For much of my life, I lived in a warrior mindset. I was constantly in survival mode, always protecting myself from being hurt, being betrayed, or being taken advantage of. My identity was rooted in fear survival tactics, self-isolation, chasing external achievements, and proving wrong the people who told me I couldn’t do something. It’s like I needed that fight to feel alive, to feel like I had a purpose. When your whole identity is built around surviving, you end up putting on a mask to protect yourself. This mask hides who you really are, and it often looks like success or strength to the outside world. My achievements became this mask—on the surface, it looked like I was winning, but deep down, I was losing the real battle with myself. The mask is a way to shield yourself from getting hurt, rejected, or judged. Maybe you show the world a version of yourself that seems successful, like you’ve got it all together, when in reality, you’re struggling inside. The achievements or control you project to others might feel good temporarily, but they don’t reflect who you truly are. The problem with wearing this mask is that, over time, it becomes harder and harder to take it off. You lose touch with your real self, and it’s exhausting to keep pretending. On the outside, it looks like you're winning—getting the promotions, hitting the goals—but inside, it feels empty. The more you rely on this facade, the further you drift from the things that really matter to you: your values, your passions, and your true feelings. It becomes a battle within. You might be achieving success in the eyes of others, but if you're disconnected from who you really are, it doesn't feel fulfilling. The mask may have helped you survive tough situations, but eventually, it keeps you from experiencing true peace, joy, or connection. You’re fighting to keep up appearances, but the real fight is with yourself. The only way to truly win is to take off the mask and reconnect with your authentic self. It’s about letting go of the need to prove yourself or protect yourself all the time. When you stop relying on the facade and start living as who you truly are, that’s when you find real peace and fulfillment—not just on the outside, but inside too.   Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

We all know what to do—wake up early, eat healthy, hit the gym, set goals—but why is it so hard to stay consistent? The truth is, it’s not just about knowing what to do, it’s about who you become through discipline. Willpower gets you started, but it’s short-lived. It’s the quick burst of energy you use to resist temptation or push through discomfort. Discipline is the long-term muscle you build. It’s what keeps you going when motivation fades. It’s about aligning your actions with your values and building sustainable habits that lead to real growth. The magic happens when you close the gap between where you are now and where you want to be. Discipline rewires your nervous system, stabilizes your emotions, and allows you to lead yourself with confidence. Kate Hastings Podcast  Mental Health Coach

Often, we don’t realize how much our words matter. The way we speak to ourselves, how we speak to others, how we speak into our future—our promises, commitments, and daily conversations—all make up our word. Without language, who are we? This isn’t just about keeping promises. It’s deeper. It’s about how you show up in the world, how your integrity shapes your character, and how your word defines your reality. When you honor your word, you build a life of authenticity and power. Authenticity means being true to who you really are, even when it’s hard or unpopular.Character is the habits, choices, and morals that make you who you are. Integrity is staying true to your principles, even when no one is watching, and always choosing to do what’s right, even when it’s tough. _________________________________     Experience the Future of Health with Mission Med+ Experience Virtual Regenerative Medicine, dedicated to optimizing your health with Mission Med+. Say goodbye to hassle and hello to safe, effective, and efficient care—the Mission Med Way! As a valued listener, you can enjoy an exclusive offer: get $100 off your first month, plus free shipping when you mention KH Podcast. Getting started is simple—reach out via call or text at 305-748-2517, or DM @missionmed.plus, and their dedicated team will handle everything for you! Contact Information: Dr. Kristen Oakes Phone: 305-748-2517 Instagram: @missionmed.plus Website: Discover the benefits of Mission Med+ today and take the first step towards a healthier you!

In a world that constantly promotes instant gratification and success, many of us find ourselves chasing happiness. Whether it’s through career achievements, material possessions, or social approval, we’ve been conditioned to believe that happiness is the ultimate goal. But here’s the thing—happiness is fleeting. It comes and goes based on external circumstances. That’s why we often feel like we need to keep reaching for the next thing, never truly satisfied. The reason we chase happiness is that we confuse it with contentment. Happiness is an emotion, sparked by a particular event or accomplishment. On the other hand, contentment is a state of being, grounded in peace with where we are and what we have—without giving up the drive for growth. However, one of the fears of pursuing contentment is falling into complacency, the trap of becoming stagnant and losing the desire to push ourselves forward. But true contentment doesn’t mean giving up on ambition or settling. It means balancing gratitude for where you are while still striving for more. ___________________________________________________________ Experience the Future of Health with Mission Med+ Experience Virtual Regenerative Medicine, dedicated to optimizing your health with Mission Med+. Say goodbye to hassle and hello to safe, effective, and efficient care—the Mission Med Way! As a valued listener, you can enjoy an exclusive offer: get $100 off your first month, plus free shipping when you mention KH Podcast. Getting started is simple—reach out via call or text at 305-748-2517, or DM @missionmed.plus, and their dedicated team will handle everything for you! Contact Information: Dr. Kristen Oakes Phone: 305-748-2517 Instagram: @missionmed.plus Website: Discover the benefits of Mission Med+ today and take the first step towards a healthier you!