Kyle and Alana put a lot of work into this Oral Sex Series finale so that it wouldn't blow... (pun intended). But in all seriousness, these oral sex episodes have had so much thought, research, and data behind them. So in this weeks finale oral sex episode they talk about fellatio (aka: oral sex being done on a man, a blow job, or BJ). Alana and Kyle discuss some of the statistics from the survey's they put out over the past few weeks, why many women have a difficult time giving oral sex on their husband, some tips to help,  how to go about bringing up the subject of oral sex with your spouse, and so much more! 

And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!

Links we mentioned in today's episode:

Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)

Oral Blessings article

Hot, Holy, & Humorous article 

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Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex?

Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come. 

And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks!

Links from today's episode:

She Comes First

- US Link

- Canadian Link

Opposites: Wants

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The highly anticipated, long awaited oral sex episode is here! Alana and Kyle will be doing more in depth episodes on fellatio and cunnilingus in the coming episodes but Seth and Melanie Studley did a FANTASTIC job starting off this series. You're not going to want to miss this one. They chat about questions like: How would a couple, who’s struggled with the idea of oral sex, introduce it into their marriage? What should the conversations look like? What considerations should be given to hygiene prior to oral? How does a woman work on getting her mind in the zone for oral sex? We're excited for you to tune in! 

Connect with Seth and Melanie Studley:

Instagram- @anatomyofmarriage

Website- www.anatomyofus.com

And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at [email protected]. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! 

Links from today's episode

David Schnarch: Passionate Marriage

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So many of these "this is the newly discovered 6 love language!" have been coming out, are they valid? Is there a love language that's missing? Tune in as Alana and Kyle chat about the supposed 6th love language: feeling seen/known. Is feeling seen or feeling known its own love language? Is it a combination of a few? Do you feel seen when your spouse speaks your love language? We'd love to know your thoughts! Shoot us a DM or an email sharing your thoughts!!

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]!

Link's from today's episode:

5 Love Language Book

Love Language Quiz

Prayers For Your Husband eBook

Prayers For Your Wife eBook

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Ho Ho HOLD UP, you can still be intimate when you're around family this Christmas?? Yep! Listen in as Kyle and Alana chat about some ways you can make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! They discuss some other times of day you can have sex when you're around family, different locations, and how removing as much stress as possible will help increase both your libido and energy!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team. Praying this Christmas is filled with so much love, joy, and Jesus. 

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at [email protected]!

Links from today's episode:

Come As You Are (US link)

Come As You Are (Canadian link)

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Prepare to have a very jolly Christmas, because Alana and Kyle are giving you Kingdom Sexuality's very first SEX CHALLENGE!! Not sure what a sex challenge is? Basically, it's committing to being intimate for a set number of days in a row. In this episode they go through a bunch of FAQ's when it comes to sex challenges. Questions like: Does it HAVE to be sex every day? How do I bring up the idea of a sex challenge to my spouse? What happens if I'm not in the mood one of the days? And so much more!! If you join the 12 Days of Christmas sex challenge we would LOVE to hear how it went for you! So be sure to join our Facebook group: Kingdom Sexuality Community and share how it's impacted your marriage! 

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, that's where you'll find even more of our content! Weekly sex positions, content specific to men, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email at [email protected]! And be sure to leave us a review and you might just hear it in the next episode. 

Links from today's episode:

Intimately Us App

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We all know that this time of the year can be a busy time. Typically well meaningly so, but things can get real busy real quick. So how can we be proactive about this and protect our connection when the craziness of the holidays come around? What are some practical ways to make space for connection during busy times? Alana and Kyle chat through those questions and so much more!  They mentioned this quote in the episode: "If you let it, the busyness of life will kill your marriage." So it’s up to you and your spouse to start now. Decide together that this Christmas will be a Christmas of connection instead of one filled with hurry and busyness.

Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode!

Links from today's episode:

Prayers For Your Wife eBook

Prayers For Your Husband eBook

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Book

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Today on the KS podcast Alana and Kyle have a couple of very special guests with us to help us close out our opposites series. Abe and Elaine Romero join in today to chat about what it looks like for them to have a commuter marriage! Living in different states how can they stay connected emotionally? Sexually?? What advice do they have for other long distance marriages? How can couples be cultivating connection when they're in different locations? They chat through this, and more! You won't want to miss it. Check out Abe and Elaine's IG pages: @commutermarriagesupport and @marriage.isajoke!

Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our content! We share weekly sex positions, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more! 

Links from todays episode:

-Ultimate Intimacy

-Intimately Us

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