Life By Design

Lessons in Parenting, Performance, and Personal Growth with Alan Stein Jr.


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This week on Resiliency Redefined, Dr. Robyne sits down with acclaimed performance coach, speaker, and author Alan Stein Jr. for a deeply energizing conversation that’s equal parts practical and inspiring. 

Drawing on decades of experience helping athletes and professionals unlock their potential on the court, in the boardroom, and at home, Alan shares how the same habits that drive world-class performance can also lead to deeper fulfillment, joy, and inner peace. His approachable wisdom and self-reflection as a human, a coach, and a parent shine through as he speaks candidly about his own growth journey and what it means to live in alignment. 

Together, they explore the value of emotional regulation, why discipline is the true engine behind lasting change, the importance of aligning your daily choices with the person you aspire to become, and what it looks like to model ownership, consistency, and compassion for your children. 

Whether you’re focused on meaningful improvement, raising resilient kids, or simply in need of a motivation boost, this episode will empower you to show up with clarity, kindness, and discipline—and keep moving in the right direction. 

In this episode, you’ll learn: 

  • How high performance insights apply beyond elite sports to everyday life, and why anyone can adopt them 
  • The importance of using emotions as information, not directives 
  • The distinction between motivation and discipline 
  • How aligning daily choices with your long-term goals sets you up for success and self-satisfaction 
  • The power of letting go of self-judgment and comparison, accepting your current starting point, and focusing on small steps forward 
  • Ways to reset, reflect, and intentionally design the future you want, starting today 
  • Parenting insights for raising resilient, self-directed kids, including modeling behavior and emphasizing process over results 
  • Why unconditional love and open, honest communication are crucial in building trust and autonomy with children and teens 
  • Fun insights like Alan’s favorite sports movies and thoughts on basketball’s evolution 

Additional Resources: 

  • Next Play: How to Focus on What Matters Most and Improve Performance, Productivity, and Fulfillment by Alan Stein Jr. — Available for pre-order now (releasing November 4, 2025) 
  • Sustain Your Game: High Performance Keys to Manage Stress, Avoid Stagnation, and Beat Burnout by Alan Stein Jr. 
  • Raise Your Game: High Performance Secrets from the Best of the Best by Alan Stein Jr. 

Get in Touch with Alan: 

  • Website: https://alansteinjr.com/   
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alansteinjr/   
  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alan-stein-jr/   
  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alansteinjr 

Get in Touch with Dr. Robyne:  

  • Watch episodes on YouTube 
  • Get Dr. Robyne's book: Calm Within The Storm 
  • Get Dr. Robyne’s book: Stress Wisely 
  • Pre-order Dr. Robyne’s book: I Hope So 
  • Join Dr. Robyne’s Stress Wisely Labs 
  • Follow Dr. Robyne on Instagram 
  • Follow Dr. Robyne's LinkedIn 
  • Visit Drrobyne.ca 
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