Hotter Than Ever

Likeability and the Cost of Faking It


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Why do we care so much about what others think of us? We've all been there, meticulously curating our lives to be oh-so likable. But guess what? It's time to shed that people-pleasing skin and unleash our unfiltered, unapologetic, and authentic selves. In this episode, Erin fearlessly tackles the age-old conundrum of whether you'd rather be liked by everyone (yawn) or adored by those who truly get you. In a culture that breeds chameleons, it’s time to start being the neon unicorn you were born to be.

From middle school drama to navigating the corporate world, Erin shares laugh-out-loud anecdotes and hard-earned wisdom on why being your authentic self is not just liberating; it's downright magnetic. This includes:

  • Getting honest: are you willing to settle for being liked by many but not truly known, or do you crave deep connections with those who genuinely understand you? 
  • Focusing on connecting with those who truly resonate with you, rather than the approval of the herd
  • Why your job in life is to be the best version of yourself and share your unique gifts with the world
  • How people-pleasing and faking happiness can limit your self-expression and personal growth
  • Cultivating a positivity bias and how it can help you attract the right people and opportunities


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Hotter Than EverBy Erin Keating

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