Hotter Than Ever

Likeability and the Cost of Faking It


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Why do we care so much about what others think of us? We've all been there, meticulously curating our lives to be oh-so likable. But guess what? It's time to shed that people-pleasing skin and unleash our unfiltered, unapologetic, and authentic selves. In this episode, Erin fearlessly tackles the age-old conundrum of whether you'd rather be liked by everyone (yawn) or adored by those who truly get you. In a culture that breeds chameleons, it’s time to start being the neon unicorn you were born to be.

From middle school drama to navigating the corporate world, Erin shares laugh-out-loud anecdotes and hard-earned wisdom on why being your authentic self is not just liberating; it's downright magnetic. This includes:

  1. Getting honest: are you willing to settle for being liked by many but not truly known, or do you crave deep connections with those who genuinely understand you?
  2. Focusing on connecting with those who truly resonate with you, rather than the approval of the herd
  3. Why your job in life is to be the best version of yourself and share your unique gifts with the world
  4. How people-pleasing and faking happiness can limit your self-expression and personal growth
  5. Cultivating a positivity bias and how it can help you attract the right people and opportunities

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