Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast! In this episode, host April Anderson welcomes back Dr. Cathryn Rench, author of When Eros Meets Atos, for one of the most direct and uncompromising conversations yet. They break down the five behaviors Cassandra partners most often rationalize and why Dr. Rench insists these patterns should no longer be dismissed as mere neurology. 

Together, they explore the darker realities hidden behind media myths, how masking and manipulation show intentional control, and why many partners mistake trauma-driven fawning for love. Dr. Rench also shares why facing the truth is essential for safety and healing and how trauma therapies like EMDR can help Cassandra sisters finally break free from denial. Tune in for blunt insight, validating clarity, and the courage every Cassandra needs to hear in order to reclaim her wellbeing.

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast, April Anderson sits down with repeat guest Diana—a pioneer for “Cassandra sisters” and author of Lonely in Love and Lonely in Truth—who’s just launched her YouTube channel, Cassandra Sister. In this episode, they’ll unpack the wild ride of uprooting twice, navigating life with a late‑diagnosed autistic partner, and turning heartache into hilarious skits (complete with costume changes and canine cameo mishaps). You’ll hear how DoorDash deliveries became Diana’s lifeline, why humor is her favorite therapy, and the insider tips she’s learned on self‑publishing, boundary‑setting, and rebuilding independence. Tune in for candid stories, belly laughs, and the solidarity every Cassandra sister needs to reclaim her power.

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast! In this episode, host April Anderson sits down with Diana Martin, author of Lonely in Love and the soon-to-be-released Lonely in Truth. Together, they delve into the complexities of the Cassandra phenomenon, the emotional toll of living in neurodiverse relationships, and the profound journey of self-discovery and healing. Diana shares moving personal stories, powerful insights from her books, and actionable advice for anyone feeling unseen or misunderstood in their relationships. Tune in for an honest and heartfelt conversation that promises to enlighten and inspire!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast, April Anderson sits down with author Mark Jordan to discuss his experiences living with both autism and ADHD, a combination known as AUDHD. From his challenging childhood marked by bullying and cultural differences to the revelation of his dual diagnosis later in life, Mark shares personal stories that highlight the complexities of neurodivergence. He explains the daily struggles of masking, navigating relationships, and the endless search for dopamine, all while using humor and insight to shed light on the ups and downs of life on the spectrum.

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Nicole, a woman who found herself in a challenging relationship with her husband, who she suspects may have Asperger's syndrome. Nicole and April discuss the toll that emotional abuse can take on mental and physical health, and Nicole's story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-care, seeking support, and having a plan when facing challenging circumstances. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Dorothy, an advocate for neurotypical partners in relationships with individuals on the autism spectrum, particularly those with Asperger's. Dorothy emphasizes the importance of community support for neurotypical partners and highlights the challenges they face in understanding and coping with their partner's behavior. She also shares anecdotes from her own marriage, detailing instances of verbal abuse, financial manipulation, and emotional neglect. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger’s Podcast!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Victoria Apperson to discuss self-care and empowerment for individuals in neurodivergent relationships. Victoria emphasizes the importance of focusing on oneself, understanding personal needs, and taking proactive steps towards healing and well-being. She also encourages listeners to prioritize self-care, recognize their own value, and seek out modalities and practices that resonate with them. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

Victoria's website is: lovelifewellmn.com

iTunes Summary:

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Victoria Apperson to discuss self-care and empowerment for individuals in neurodivergent relationships. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Deb Lawrence, a poet with experience with Autism in relationships. She and April discuss the significance of support networks in navigating the unique challenges faced by individuals in neurodiverse relationships, offering hope, understanding, and solidarity to those who may feel isolated or misunderstood. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

iTunes Summary:

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Deb Lawrence, a poet with experience with Autism in relationships. She and April discuss the significance of support networks in navigating the unique challenges faced by individuals in neurodiverse relationships, offering hope, understanding, and solidarity to those who may feel isolated or misunderstood. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by a previous guest, Lisa. In episode three, Lisa shared her dramatic personal journey, but today she joins April to discuss the profile of a Cassandra in the context autistic or narcissistic relationships. They highlight various traits and experiences common among individuals who find themselves in such relationships, including empathy, vulnerability, low self-esteem, past traumas, and a high tolerance for neglect. 

Their conversation delves into how these traits can make individuals susceptible to being targeted by partners who may exhibit predatory behavior, and how understanding one's own worth and agency shapes the course of their lives. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

iTunes Summary:

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by a previous guest, Lisa. In episode three, Lisa detailed her heartwarming and heartbreaking story, but today she joins April to discuss the profile of a Cassandra in the context of relationships with individuals who have autism or narcissistic traits. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Dr. Kenneth Roberson to discuss the importance of understanding and addressing the challenges faced by adults with Asperger's Syndrome (now incorporated into Autism Spectrum Disorder). 

Dr. Kenneth Roberson, a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst, emphasizes the need for accurate diagnosis, recognition of coexisting conditions, and the potential for individuals with Asperger's to change and improve their quality of life through motivation and support. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!

iTunes Summary:

Welcome to the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast. In today's episode, April is joined by Dr. Kenneth Roberson to discuss the importance of understanding and addressing the challenges faced by adults with Asperger's Syndrome (now incorporated into Autism Spectrum Disorder). They explore the need for accurate diagnosis, recognition of coexisting conditions, and the potential for individuals with Asperger's to change and improve their quality of life through motivation and support. Listen now for invaluable guidance, unwavering support, and compelling real life stories on the Love, Honor, and Asperger's Podcast!