Man Alive

By Shana JamesSociety & Culture Health & Fitness Philosophy Sexuality

Man Alive episodes

December 20, 2017 Title: My message to you in the time of Harvey Weinstein (Charlie Rose, Matt Lauer, Louis C.K....)
How do you stand strong in your power, truth and desire as men fall from the ranks of super stardom? How can you be seen as the great man you are, rather than a creep or a man who harasses?
32 min
December 14, 2017 How To Embrace Conflict For A More Loving Relationship – Jayson Gaddis
Dealing with Conflict: Most of us never received an education about what it takes to make a mature romantic relationship work, especially how to effectively navigate conflict to feel closer rather than erode trust and intimacy. Here’s some of the most important education you never received!

http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/Jayson-Gaddis-conflict.mp3
Show notes:
In this conversation we cover:

* he mind-set that turns conflict into growth and intimacy
* The practices of self-regulation and co-regulation for easing conflict
* How you can best support your partner when s/he is triggered
* The science that proves you are not crazy, bad or wrong when conflict arises
* Our imperfection / humanness: Jayson’s recent conflict with his wife and Shana’s habit of avoiding conflict

Bio:
Jayson Gaddis, relationship student & teacher and host of the Smart Couple Podcast, is on a mission to teach people the one class they didn’t get in school–”How to do Romantic Relationships.” That’s why he founded The Relationship School®. He was emotionally constipated for years before relationship failure forced him to turn his life over to learning about relationships. Now, he’s been married to his amazing wife since 2007 (after some brutal break ups) and has two beautiful kids. When he doesn’t live and breathe this stuff with his family, he pretty much gets his ass handed to him.
Jayson believes that the world will be a better place if we just knew how to effectively work out our differences. He teaches you that hidden within any and all relationship pain are the seeds of you getting more empowered in your life and more connected to yourself.
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Relationship School
Shana James Coaching – Learn the most important skill men who are professionally successful and have a fulfilling love life use every day

40 min
December 14, 2017 Conflict Doesn't Have to Take You Down or Tear You Apart
Most of us never received an education about what it takes to make a mature romantic relationship work, especially how to effectively navigate conflict to feel closer rather than erode trust and intimacy. Here's some of the most important education you never received!
40 min
December 06, 2017 How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life and Relationships – Ben Salzman
If there was a way to illuminate your unique challenges in your relationships and career, as well as tools to overcome them, wouldn’t you want to know? The Enneagram is an ancient personality typing system that does this! Ben and I get real about our own types and how you can stop sabotaging your life.

http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/Ben-personality-types-sabotage-relationships.mp3
Show notes:
In this episode we cover:

* How the Enneagram (and discovering your personality type) can help you be more successful in relationships and career
* The path to stopping yourself BEFORE you sabotage, explode or implode
* The patterns of each personality type, including Shana’s and the troubles she’s faced in relationship as a result
* Where you actually have leverage to create intimacy and connection
* Also, check out the outtake video where Ben shared his and his wife’s personality types and dynamic as well. Subscribe here to watch it.

Bio:
Ben Saltzman, MA, is an internationally known seminar facilitator, fortune 500 trainer, coach to entrepreneurial multi-millionaires, creator of the Shadow/Light Integration Coaching Course (SLICC), and co-lead of the Abundance Ministry at the 3000 member church Inner Light Ministries where he teaches facilitation skills to the Practitioners. Ben is a radio personality, the author of the book Rules for Visionary Leaders and the programs The Five Spiritual Laws of Money and Coaching for Deep-Level Change.
Ben has a Masters Degree in Organizational Development from John F. Kennedy University where he teaches regularly. He taught seminars in the Enneagram and Transformational Coaching at the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, and co-founded the Israeli Enneagram Center in Tel Aviv, Israel where he teaches the master level classes.
Ben currently teaches a year long virtual program titled “Shadow/Light Integration Coaching” which is a psycho-spiritual transformational program that includes shadow work integrated with accessing aspects of Divinity.
Past clients include: Hewlett Packard, The Gap, Levi Strauss, Sun Microsystems, United States Airforce, Guidant, Broadview, Intel Corp., University of California Santa Cruz, Hunt Oil, Exar, BOSCH, The Global Fund for Women, Capricorn Investments, ASI, and numerous high profile entrepreneurs.
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Shana James Coaching – Learn the most important skill men who are professionally successful and have a fulfilling love life use every day

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December 06, 2017 How to Stop Sabotaging Your Life and Relationships
If there was a way to illuminate your unique challenges in relationship and career, as well as tools to overcome them, wouldn't you want to know? The Enneagram is an ancient personality typing system that does this! Ben and I get real about our own types and how you can stop sabotaging your life.
37 min
November 29, 2017 How Being Great at Sales can Improve Your Romantic Relationship – Ray Brejcha
Find out what skills and qualities make you both highly effective at sales and great at romantic relationships. This is not about manipulation or selling yourself! Neither business nor relationship would thrive on these faulty foundations. Here’s what it’s really about…

http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/salesandromance-ray-Brejcha.mp3
Show notes:
In this episode we cover:

* The key to communication that causes others to trust, respect and believe in your abilities
* A powerful way to handle people’s upset so you don’t create irreparable conflict with someone you love, or lose a client
* How to re-visit moments in a romantic or sales conversation that were awkward or off track, so they don’t wreak havoc later
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The seemingly invisible contributors to executive presence

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How to master the skill of being aware of yourself and others at the same time

Bio:
Ray is a highly skilled value creator that ingeniously solves customer problems and offers suggestions about realistic solutions to business problems for clients. He advises clients on common obstacles to avoid, suggest proven best practices, and build relationships that are mutually rewarding.
He has over 24 years of experience in strategic and solution sales working across several industries and more than 12 years of business and leadership coaching experience. He has worked with over 200 leaders and small business owners to help them improve their business results and leadership skills.
His specialties include: Business Process Enablement Experience: Customer Relationship Management / Customer Experience (CRM) (Sales, Marketing, Service, & eCommerce). Enterprise Resource Planning Human Resources & Talent Management (HRMS) (Recruiting to Retire), Financial Management (FMS) (Record to Report), Procurement (Procure to Pay), Revenue (Order to Cash), Supply Chain (Plan to Make), Integrated Business Planning (S&OP), and Business Intelligence (BI), Demand Driven Value Network.
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Shana James Coaching – Learn the most important skill men who are professionally successful and have a fulfilling love life use every day

42 min
November 29, 2017 How to Be Great at Sales and Romantic Relationships
Find out what skills and qualities make you both highly effective at sales and great at romantic relationships. This is not about manipulation or selling yourself! Neither business nor relationship would thrive on these faulty foundations. Here's what it's really about...
42 min
November 15, 2017 How to Transform a Sexless Relationship – Karen Brody
An honest look into a Sexless Relationship by two women coaches (who love men and have worked with them for more than a decade) and how to have more of the affection, love and sex you want

http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/Sexless-Relationship-Solution-Karen.mp3
Show notes:
In this episode we cover:

* How to have sex be a non-negotiable in a relationship
* How to have conversations with a partner to re-ignite sex and sensuality
* What has women more likely to say no and shut down to sex over time
* The framing of sensual and sexual desires that has women feel cared about and wanted
* What to do when a woman tests you (and she may not even realize she is doing this) that solidifies your respect for yourself and her desire for you

Bio:
Karen Brody teaches a man how to embody his masculine powers, found in such irresistible masculine archetypes as The Artist, The Warrior and The Dark Knight, and to use these powers to deliver what women secretly want in love. Karen has coached thousands of men to claim their masculine power (in a good way), and to learn how to share their masculine gifts with women to ignite attraction, passion and love! Her book, Open Her, Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse your Woman’s Love & Desire, is an Amazon Bestseller and a must-read for any man who loves women and wants a deeply-satisfied woman in his life.
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Love and Intimacy Coach
Shana James Coaching – Learn the most important skill men who are professionally successful and have a fulfilling love life use every day

44 min
November 11, 2017 Sexless Relationship Solutions
An honest look by two women coaches (who love men and have worked with them for more than a decade) into the nitty gritty of sexless relationships and how to have more of the affection, love and sex you want
44 min
November 08, 2017 Sexual Yoga: Performance Hacking Your Sexual Experiences, Plus Guerrilla Tantra – Jamie Wheal
What exactly is Sexual Yoga? Jamie Wheal has worked with the elite in sports, finance, tech and government. He now brings us the integration of flow states and sex!

http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/SexualYoga-Jamie-Wheal.mp3
Show notes:
Have you ever thought about how FLOW states could create more connected, wildly pleasurable and even healing love-making?
If you haven’t heard much about flow states, FLOW is the academic framing for higher reaches of experience and performance.
When Jamie Wheal — co-author of the global bestseller and Pulitzer Prize nominee Stealing Fire and Executive Director at Flow Genome Project — told me he wanted our conversation to be about integrating flow states with sex, I got excited.
Jamie Wheal has helped create flow states with top athletes, CEOs and government officials. Unlocking higher levels of human performance is incomplete without intimacy and sexuality. This powerful conversation takes human potential to a whole new level!
Since he was exhausted from a long book launch, I asked if he still wanted to have our conversation. He said “Yes, as long as we talk about something I’ve never talked about before.” So you get to hear a new and fascinating conversation!
Jamie presents the possibility that we can spend less time talking about our feelings and instead enter into states of consciousness that give us clarity, the experience of connection and the ability heal and transform.
In this conversation he shares about how to bring this into the bedroom. Our discussion covers:

* The paint by number guide to integrating flow states and sex into a practice of growth and expanded consciousness
* Jamie‘s description of the Cosmic Fuck Tunnel
* Why sex after 8pm is not a good idea + other things that dull your arousal potential
* A revolutionary alternative for men rather than leaving a relationship for a younger partner or blaming another for not feeling vital or turned on
* What it takes to be mature enough to try this practice

I can’t wait to hear what you take away from this one!
While I don’t work with the physical realms of sex in coaching I do support men to step into an energetic and relational mastery that takes intimacy to a whole new level — one many people never even dream of! If you’re curious how you and your relationship could benefit from this, tell me more about yourself here and we can schedule a time to talk.
Bio:
Jamie Wheal, co-author of the global bestseller and Pulitzer Prize nominee Stealing Fire and Executive Director at Flow Genome Project, is an expert on peak performance and leadership, specializing in the neuroscience and application of Flow states. He has advised everyone from the U.S. Naval War College and Special Operations Command, the athletes of RedBull, and the owners of NFL, NBA, MLB and Premier League teams, to the executives of Google, Deloitte Cisco and Young Presidents’ Organization. He studied historical anthropology under MacArthur Fellow Patricia Nelson Limerick, specializing in utopian social movements and his work has appeared in anthologies and peer-reviewed academic journals
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